A Hawaiian Ritual You Will Love, Right In The Heart Of A Cape May Sunset

A Hawaiian Ritual You Will Love, Right In The Heart Of A Cape May Sunset

The Unexpected Hawaiian Pu

Many things make Cape May County, NJ special.  It is a great vacation destination at the southernmost tip of the state.  It stands out with its historic Victorian architecture and gas street lights, its rich arts and music scene, and its wide open protected natural spaces.  But there is a lesser-known special thing happening nearly every evening in the county – a traditional native Hawaiian Pu.

Kevin, The Conch Shell Guy

Kevin, The Conch Shell Guy

While my loved ones and I have been visiting and creating family traditions in Cape May County for more than two decades, there is another person with his own very special and unique local tradition.  Since I first started taking walks at sunset on the beach on Fern Road in 2015, I have seen Kevin and his conch shell, and I love sharing his great story.

A beautiful beach housd by the bay in Cape May Beach, NJ

Dreams Come True Cottage

Our little beach cottage, Dreams Come True Cottage,  is a Cape Cod-style home between the Villas and Town Bank in the Cape May Beach neighborhood.  We are 387 steps from the dunes, and THE BEST thing about any visit to this part of Cape May County is the sunset.  The sun sets daily over Delaware Bay, with quiet waves lapping against the sandy shores of the west side of the southernmost county of New Jersey.  Forget the boardwalks, beach tags, and crowds of the ocean that sit only a few miles away.  The bayside beaches are home to the best secret of Cape May County, and this is where Kevin performs his special tradition.

Kevin retired to the county and loved the area as well.  Each day, on as many of the 365 days in the year as the weather will allow, Kevin walks to the water’s edge near Fern, Forest, and Hollywood Roads which all run parallel to each other and perpendicular to the beach, ending at sandy paths which lead to the water.

The Great Titan In The Wild

Gathering for The Pu

As the sun lowers each day, you see locals and visitors gather, some on foot and some setting up a blanket or chairs, all with a plan to stay for a spell.  You may see children laughing in the distance up the beach north toward the Villas, and maybe some dogs romping along the water’s edge in the southern direction toward the Cape May ferry launch.  But the small group that is gathering on this warm summer evening is here for the end-of-day ceremony performed by Kevin nearly every night of the year.

Except on the worst weather days of winter, there are only a few days that Kevin misses, and a few of his most loyal followers join for most sunsets as well.  Kevin was trained and has embraced the ancient Hawaiian ritual of blowing on the Conch shell, also known as Pū, pronounced ‘poo’ in Hawaiian.  The Pu is seen as a gift from the life-giving waters of the ocean, with a sound that flows across the ‘Aina (land).

The quiet ceremony that Kevin performs each evening is a deep part of Hawaiian culture.  While he has performed for many ceremonies, including at the US Capital in Washington DC for dignitaries, what he does each sunset in Cape May Beach, NJ on the sand is a beautiful and respectful way to say goodbye and thanks (Mahalo) to the day.

His voice resonates, and he blows the Pu, taking a turn in each cardinal direction, North, South, East, and West to represent the coagulation of the powers of the na Akua or gods.  He begins reciting the native language of respect.  Blowing the Pu is a call to the divine and Kevin adheres to a protocol with specific sequence and timing.  The blows symbolize the journey of the Ancient Hawaiians as well as our journey in eternal ways.

The Giant Tritan

Kevin’s giant Tritan was a gift from a sailor who found it on his way from Tahiti and Vanuatu islands in the South Pacific Ocean on his way up to Hawaii  The shell was passed to someone in Hawaii who knew how great it would be for Kevin to use, and so it was sent to a place in Florida where the conch was tested for its instrumental quality, deemed beautiful, and then fitted with the brass ring mouthpiece.

The Best Sunset In Cape May

… is the one you don’t want to end

The paddleboarder and Kevin appear synchronized with each other and the sun.

The sun continues its fall below the horizon, about the same time that a stand-up paddleboarder crosses the water in front of the orange ball that is shimmering on the water. On many days, Kevin and the unnamed paddleboarder have their traditions synchronized. The ceremony ends, the conch is drawn down to Kevin’s side, and the beach feels immediately cooler and darker. We linger for a while, as do other visitors on this evening of many evenings, not wanting our day to end quite yet.

Providing a sense of peace, community, and appreciation for nature’s gifts, Kevin’s ancient daily ritual enriches the lives of visitors and neighbors in the Cape May Beach neighborhood of Lower Township, NJ.  His respectful and enduring performance is impressive, and the contributions he makes to our visits and the end of our day are greatly appreciated.  Thank you, Kevin.  We will come back again and again in our shared love of this place.  We hope to see you again soon.

Start a New Tradition In Cape May

…Visit Kevin The Conch Shell Guy.


The next time you find yourself in Cape May County, perhaps even staying as a guest at Dreams Come True Cottage, pay a visit to the beach at the end of Fern Road at sunset.  Say “hello” to Kevin and his beautiful musical instrument. 


Safe Travels, and A Hui Hou.

A Hui Hou – A Hawaiian farewell

Zanis – Schmidt Family Cape May Memories With Loved Ones Over The Decades

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Visit Virginia’s Historic Triangle – It’s Not Your Grade School History Lesson!

History comes alive when you see the ships peeking through the trees that brought early settlers to what would eventually become part of Virginia’s Historic Triangle.

When in grade school, I remember studying early American history, including our earliest settlements and the Revolutionary War.  History was neither my favorite nor least favorite subject, but I did enjoy the projects.  One project in particular was creating a Powhatan Native American village built from sticks and straw and hay and rocks that I found in the woods behind our house.  It was the artist in me, rather than the historian, that could always carry the day and make up for any academic gaps I had in history.  If it was interesting to me, as arts and crafts always were, then it made an impression on me.

But it was a family camping trip in my late pre-teen days that I remember most and that brought the classroom history to life for me – a summer visit to the Jamestown Settlement that made an interesting and lasting impression on my childhood memories, so much so that it all came back to me four decades later when my husband I traveled to the Virginia Historic Triangle.

Mom, pull out the old photo album – there HAS to be a photo of me in middle school standing in this very spot (sans Covid mask but still my same nerdy self!)

You do not need to be a history buff to enjoy the Historic Triangle of Virginia.  It is really appropriate for just about everyone.  Really.  Adults, children of all ages, Americans, international visitors, history buffs and those that barely survived American History class in high school – they all can find a place here.  Our September 2020 visit left us wanting more, because the more we explored, the more we wanted to see.

It was important to George (Washington) that we remain Covid-safe during our visit to the American Revolution Museum at Yorktown.

The Historic Triangle of Virginia includes three historic colonial communities located on the Virginia Peninsula of the United States and is bounded by the York River on the north and the James River on the south. The points that form the triangle are Jamestown, Colonial Williamsburg, and Yorktown. They feature many restored attractions and are linked by the Colonial Parkway in James City and York counties, and the City of Williamsburg.

The obvious stops are Jamestown, Yorktown and Williamsburg, and we only got to see two of the three.  A sprained ankle (me) and some unexpected eye doctor appointments (also me), chewed up many of our days and left us knowing that we hope to return to the area, perhaps in a post-Covid world, hopefully injury-free, and be able to dig deeper into what the area has to offer.  Nonetheless, we had a great visit and experienced some fun and learning along the way.

We decided it was best to go in chronological order, so we started at Jamestown Settlement (we did not have time to visit the archeological site of Jamestown Settlement where digs continue to discover history even now).  Among the first things I noticed at this recreation of America’s first permanent English settlement was that the Powhatan Native American huts are still there as I remembered them!  The historically accurate Jamestown fort was there as well, along with the addition of three replica ships that brought the settlers to the area – the Susan Constant, Godspeed and Discovery, all featuring interpreters wearing 17th-century wardrobe and filled with wonderful historically accurate knowledge that helps you truly feel the incredible challenges these early settlers must have suffered to try to survive.

The recreated Anglican Church inside James Fort was a place you could almost see and hear the long sermons of mandatory church service, important meetings and other large gatherings of the early settlers during such difficult years.

This is where history comes to life, with a scattering of really friendly and well-informed museum employees that can discuss their historical areas of expertise.  You can easily tell that they love history and love that their job is to share their love of history with others.  We spoke with guides that were knowledgeable in foods of the era and medical care.  Peeking in on the living quarters of the inhabitants was eye-opening, including the “survival cannibalism: that is discussed, something that I certainly did not recall being taught in grade school!

Inside the Jamestown Settlement museum is a vast array of artifacts and educational displays.  I highly recommend the introductory video as a way to start your visit, so you can learn some of the historical context and details, or brush up on the history lessons you forgot long ago.

This Continental Army tent was for an officer of means – tents of similar size were also used to sleep six enlisted men.

Several days later we visited the American Revolutionary Museum at Yorktown.  The quality of both the museum and the outdoor living history areas, which included a continental army encampment and a revolutionary-era farm were impressive.  The indoor museum was expansive and also included a wonderful film and exhibition galleries.  Equally well-informed employees were available to guide us and answer questions.  This was truly a place that a history buff would spend an entire day, but it was walkable enough so that in only a couple of hours we could get a good understanding of the historic significance of Yorktown.  As proudly pointed out to us, the most special and valuable artifact in the museum is the rare July 1776 broadside printing of the Declaration of Independence on display in a large circular gallery in the museum.

The museum quality was appropriate in appearance, high in quality and vast in content.

What impressed us most overall about both Jamestown Settlement and the American Revolution Museum at Yorktown was the overall quality.  Both properties were accessible, in good order, very clean and well maintained, and as neat as a pin.  We felt safe at all times in a Covid world.  The breadth of the display content and the span of history covered were impressive.  The admission price of $27.50 per adult ($16.50 children 6 – 12; under 6 free) for a combination ticket to both locations within seven days, appears to be put to good use and worthwhile.  Other ticket options are also available.

Beyond the obvious history museums most of us expect of the area, there is much more to discover.  Historic Yorktown is a beautifully appointed waterside destination that was a great stop along after a few hours of museum visits.  We enjoyed an outdoor meal on the water and drove briefly through the historic town and battlefields that reminded me a lot of Gettysburg, Pennsylvania.

Historic Yorktowne was waterside, warm, quiet and had outdoor dining options that we could enjoy.
I imagine that this place could be hopping in the summer, when not in the middle of a pandemic!
The battlefields above the riverfront area of Yorktown made for a pretty drive.

Among our favorite little adventures was a three-hour semi-private sail boat charter.  It was just us, Captain Dan and one other couple sailing on the beautiful York River.  There are a number of similar options, on bigger or different types of boats, but this was perfect for us.  The Captain pointed out several routine overhead flights by Air Force One and we had the opportunity to pass by two immense US Naval ships that harbor near the Coleman Memorial Bridge and travel weekly (turning the center of the bridge to “open” it so that the tall ships can pass and head out to nearby Norfolk.  We watched the opening and closing of the Coleman Memorial Bridge (not sure why, as no Naval ship was passing through) and enjoyed a water’s edge view of Yorktown, a Naval Weapons Station and even Bruce Hornsby’s mother’s house.  But the highlight of the day was watching dolphins swim peacefully and playfully on all sides of our sailboat.  The captain indicated that it was a late-season treat, as he had not seen any dolphins on the river for the previous ten days.  The joy and beauty of these creatures was all around us, first one or two, then at least eight or more in a group swimming as if they were putting on a water show just for us!

It was a rare treat to see the Colman Memorial Bridge to open since Navy ships are the only for which the bridge would be closed to cars and opened for vessels (the sailboat shown just happened to be there at the time and was not seeking passage under the bridge).
Being surrounded by these beautiful creatures was the highlight of the day for us!

Part of all travel and sightseeing is learning to be okay with not being able to “do it all”.  We left a lot on our “next time” list that we didn’t even know about before we arrived inside the triangle.  Post-Covid America would be a great time to see a few items we couldn’t get to on this trip – Busch Gardens Williamsburg, PatriottoursVA.com, home of the historic Yorktown Segway tour and any of a number of well regarded wineries in the area.  Considering that the historic triangle is only about a 3 ½ hour car drive from most of our family in the Baltimore and surrounding areas, it seems like a great place to entice family visits and show them what we still wish to discover.

Our semi=private sailboat charter on the James River was a thrill.

Safe travels and keep history alive!

We learned a lot from the historic interpreters/guides – here we learned about cooking at the Continental Army encampment.

Here is a listing of some of the great things to see and do in Virginia’s Historic Triangle:

WilliamsburgBusch Gardens
Water Country USA
Colonial Williamsburg
Jamestown Settlement
Pottery Complex
Dinner and Music Theatre
YorktownRevolutionary War Battlefield
Victory Center
Beaches/River Cruises
RichmondScience Museum of Virginia
Kings Dominion
Richmond International Speedway
Virginia Museum of Fine Arts
Children’s Museum
Hampton RoadsDinner Cruises
Maritime Museum
Virginia Living Museum
Fort Eustis
NorfolkNaval Station
Tall Ship Cruises
Battleship Wisconsin
Chrysler Museum
Nauticus National Maritime Center
Victory Rover Naval Base Cruises
Virginia BeachAtlantic Ocean, Beaches, Boardwalk
Chesapeake Bay Bridge Tunnel
Virginia’s Eastern Shore
Contemporary Art Center of Virginia
Ocean Breeze Waterpark
Marine Science Museum
Urbanna or NearbySeveral 18 Hole Golf Courses
Museums and Historic Sites
Plantations (Shirley, Stratford Hall, Sherwood Forest)
Narrated River Cruises
Parks and Trails
Charter Fishing
George Washington Birthplace
Boutique Shops, Antique Shops
Wineries
James Fort was recreated based on all the history that has been uncovered in the area where the actual Fort once stood.

Bibliography

Wikipedia. Historic Triangle, 22 05 2020, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Historic_Triangle#:~:text=The%20Historic%20Triangle%20includes%20three,%2C%20Colonial%20Williamsburg%2C%20and%20Yorktown. Accessed 09 10 2020.

Hoist up the main sail, matey! It was a thrill to learn just a LITTLE bit about sailing – thank goodness for Captain Dan to get us there and back safely!

Just Start.

“Just start, Tina”. That is what I tell myself today as I launch TimeTravelsandTribluations.com. Then we will see what happens.

Reading and writing has been a favorite pasttime of mine throughout my life. I read and write to explore, learn, share and sometimes just to help me figure things out. It has been my therapy, my escape, my entertainment and a sharing of my feelings that are hard to express otherwise.

Formulating it all into a blog is simply a long-put-off next step…sort of digitizing a journal that I no longer am keeping to myself. It will meander in no particular order, neither exclusively chronological nor following a single subject. It is simply my life a little more out there in black and white print, in a world that is more full of gray.

From this to that in the blink of an eye.

In a matter of a few weeks, my nest will be empty. Every “baby chick” will be out of the house. For the first time in decades, I will not be living with any children of any age. It will just be me and my husband and a few pets. Wow. We certainly got here with unexpected twists and some hard left turns, and it certainly was not all rainbows and unicorns. It was just life…a lot of it. I feel like I’ve already lived a few lives in my 53 years and that this next phase of whatever God has planned for us is another big step into the unknown. I am waiting for it all with a glad and grateful heart.

If you enjoy what I write, terrific. If you find it helpful, funny, thought-provoking or interesting, even better! If you disagree, please comment respectfully. If you dislike what you see, please just don’t read it. I read and write for me, but am sharing with you as well. I am old enough to be less concerned with criticism and believe that we all have life experiences that can help others. All of our lives are unique, but there isn’t too much that we don’t experience that hasn’t already been experienced by someone else, so perhaps hearing a little bit of each other’s stories can help us all.

So please enjoy the TIME you have, enjoy safe TRAVELS and give your TRIBULATIONS to God.

 "Then if you call to me in time of trouble I will rescue you and you will honor me."  Psalm 50:15