Enjoy The Journey – It’s Cliche’ For Good Reason

“It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end.”

Ursula K. Le Guin, The Left Hand of Darkness

We had an amazing summer of RV travel in the Pacific Northwest (PNW) states of Washington, Oregon, and northern California, but this story isn’t about that.  The beauty of RVing is not always in the destination.  Sometimes, you will find wonderful adventures to be discovered ON THE WAY.  These unexpected, unplanned discoveries while you drive from Point A to Point B are sometimes some of the best memories. Here are two of ours:

Spamalot

While sitting in Florida in December 2021, we sold our first fifth-wheel RV to a couple from Minnesota, meeting them in early 2022 to complete the sale as we picked up our new fifth-wheel in Missouri.  It was happenstance and perhaps good camping mojo that turned this business transaction into a new sort of long-distance friendship!   So as we mapped out our planned PNW adventure a year later, it just made sense to reconnect with Bruce and Eva as we drove through their home state of Minnesota!

Bruce and Eva are gracious hosts and were eager to meet us in Ellendale, Minnesota for a couple of nights of camping.  We spent some of that time hiking in a nature preserve, touring a historic home, and eating lunch at a local pub, but the very best thing we did was a visit to the SPAM Museum in Austin, Minnesota!  

We never knew that a (free) SPAM museum existed, but eating SPAM was a childhood experience LONG preserved in our memories – much like the long preservation time of this curious “canned meat”.  We remember it well!  It was a convenient, affordable meat-on-the-shelf option for mothers of the post-WWII United States looking to feed their families.  We had no ill-conceived notions that SPAM was a healthy choice for a meal or snack, but it certainly played a role in our childhoods of the 60s and 70s.

We entered the nostalgic museum, (the latest and greatest version of it was built in 2016), in cute little downtown Austin, and we were immediately taken back to a time when no one worried about nitrates and salt content in food.  We were warmly welcomed and offered some free samples, which were being passed on trays by employees, like fancy hors d’oeuvres at a post-wedding cocktail hour.  There were more flavors than we knew had ever existed, including bacon, hickory smoke, teriyaki, Tocino, and jalapeno.  Some were cubed and warmed, some grilled, and all were different than the “original”, thinly sliced-and-fried version my momma had served me decades earlier.

As we wandered through the self-guided museum, we were met with SPAM facts and flavors that taught us of the worldwide fame of this ground, cooked, and canned 6-ingredient meat product.  Most popular in Hawaii, it also has wide appeal in the Philippines, Hong Kong, and South Korea.  The museum is unpretentious and has fun laughing about itself, even displaying SPAM musical instruments, a bacon-fueled motorcycle, and an entire display dedicated to Monty Python’s Spamalot.  We spent the day giggling and reminiscing and even marveling unexpectedly at what this Hormel-owned mystery meat meant in our lives.  Our visit ended in the gift shop where we couldn’t resist buying a 14-can variety pack of SPAM and a pair of pajama SPAM pants!

Spam will never be part of a heart-healthy dietary plan, but it is a very versatile “meat in moderation”, or the perfect item to place on a broke college student’s shopping list alongside ramen noodles, and single-ply toilet paper.  It was a wonderfully silly and fun visit if you find yourself in the Austin, Minnesota area someday; wander into the worthy-of-an-adventure SPAM museum!

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Danke, Leavenworth!

Before you arrive at the picturesque and familiar images of the Pacific coast of Washington State, you must first drive through eastern and central Washington, where you will find a very different culture and topography.  Smack in the middle of the state, as you cross over from the flat and desert-like lands in the eastern half of the state, you will see the approaching mountains.  As you climb closer you will see Leavenworth, Washington, which looks and feels like you are driving into Bavaria, Germany!  With an average of 80 inches of annual snow, and an average temperature of 60 degrees (an average high of 102.5 and an average low of 33.9), a visit to this town is a pleasant trickery of culture and fun!

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In the 1960s, the leaders of Leavenworth decided to embrace the mountainous views that are the backdrop to their town and modeled their street names and storefront facades after a little German ski town.  It worked, and over time, they added German cultural events and businesses that further embraced a Deutschland flavor.  Today, Leavenworth is a popular year-round tourist destination to explore a little German culture without any passport required.  We were thrilled to discover it.

On our visit, we found our way to the Nutcracker Museum, which houses the most impressive collection of nutcrackers I’ve ever seen, with varieties large and small, historic and kitschy, depicting careers, sports teams, nationalities, lifestyles, and more.

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We wandered to the town center where the streets were closed off to vehicles and were shaded by buildings with window boxes teeming with flowers.  Oompah music emanated from in front of the gazebo while an elderly couple danced lovingly in the classic polka style.  We visited the Boudreaux Cellars Tasting Room and sat at their outdoor seating, enjoying the warm afternoon sun, listening to the sounds of the village, and enjoying a delicious bottle of expensive but high-quality wine.  We ended our visit with a traditional German-styled dinner of schnitzel, beer in a glass mug, and traditional live German accordion music and yodeling.

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Our visit to Leavenworth was our last stop on our ten-day trip from Pennsylvania before we scaled the mountainous overpass and saw the Pacific Ocean.  It was quite a journey and it reinforced all the cliches meant to remind us to enjoy ourselves along the way.  So –  “enjoy the journey”, “enjoy the ride”, and be more like Verghese…

“Enjoy the journey, the destination will come.”

Verghese

“Though the road’s been rocky it sure feels good to me.”

Bob Marley

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Tricks And Truths About Full-Time RV Life

Rodanthe, NC – December 2022

When things go wrong (and they will), what are ya gonna do?!?

We’ve always said full-time RV travel is our happily-chosen lifestyle, but it will not be forever.  Nothing in life lasts forever, actually, so this unique living arrangement would be no different.  We have been “on the road” since July 2020, and we went into this joking that it will go well and take any number of years to complete our adventure, or it will last for only six weeks before we decide we’ve had enough of living in 310 square feet of space together!

There is a romance about full-time travel, and generally, when we tell people that we are full-time RVers traveling North America, we are usually met with smiles and an expression of “Wow, I’ve always dreamed about doing that”!  These types of comments are often followed by a smattering of questions about “how” we do it! 

Since we recently took a break from the road and have subsequently and happily returned to full-time travel, I thought it might be a good time to share some TRICKS AND TRUTHS for FT RV living that might help others that are considering this adventurous lifestyle.

TRUTH:  FT RV travel is not a perpetual vacation.  There is still all of “real life” to face.  So go into it with realistic expectations and know that life’s problems will follow you on the road…and even then, it can be awesome!

Periodically we reassess and check in with each other to see how each is fairing with limited personal space, limited hot water, limited storage, and nearly 100% “together time”.  As anyone might imagine, it can be GREAT – and other times, it can be TIGHT.  After one full year on the road, we assessed our situation and still couldn’t see the end in sight, so we doubled down and bought a new RV that was a bit more conducive to the long haul, selling our “old faithful” rig, Desi, at the peak of the market, making the justification a bit less costly and painful.

(Yep – A Star Wars TRICK)

TRICK:  Check in periodically with yourself and if applicable, your partner, to see how you feel about your nomadic lifestyle.  Adjust to meet changing interests and goals.  Keep an open mind about what RVing can look like, as there are MANY ways to enjoy life!


After two-and-a-half-years of travel, we were faced with another assessment,  In 2022 we had limited our journey to a four-state region around our family base in Maryland and Pennsylvania for about nine months because of a series of family weddings and graduations, and our wanderlust (mine, mainly) was soaring and aching for the road again.  Then it finally happened.  We had a breakdown that caused us to think about taking a break from the road.

As we left Rodanthe, NC, and Camp Hatteras RV Resort just before Christmas, we had a problem with one of our Schwintek slides on our 2022 Grand Design Solitude 346fls.  These electric slides are notorious for getting “out of sync” with their paired motors, and in our case, one side of the slide-out became over-torqued and pulled away some of the RV sidewall trim as the slide tried to fully close.  This resulted in some broken screws and minor damage to the side of the RV.

Better that this happened two months BEFORE our
warranty ended instead of two months AFTER.

Finding a way to repair RVs in this post-Covid economy has become challenging.  Even before Covid, it wasn’t unusual for RV dealers complete warranty work only on RVs that they sold to their own customers.  So as we drove from Rodanthe, NC to our Christmas destination of Gettysburg, PA, I called nearly every RV dealer in a four-state radius of Pennsylvania that sells Grand Design rigs to secure an appointment.

Not only do dealers not want to do WARRANTY work if we didn’t buy it from them, but most of those we spoke to also weren’t currently doing ANY KIND OF WORK on RVs that hadn’t been purchased from them.  Fortunately, we found ONE – shout out to Tom Schaeffer’s RV in Shoemakersville, PA, which was also within a couple of hours of us.  We would have to wait three weeks for the appointment, but they were very happy to accept our business.  

We were very grateful to find THIS RV dealership!

TRUTH:  Expect things to break down – both big and small, and try to roll with it.  Expect those breakdowns to have a bigger impact on your daily living than in your “foundation house”.  Repairs take longer, are often more inconvenient, and usually cost more as well.  The more you can fix yourself, the more peaceful your RV life will be.


We knew that finding a way to repair this warranty-covered item would be challenging, and indeed it was.  With our appointment secured, and further use of our slide-out risking more damage, we decided that our best course of action was to head to “sticks-and-bricks” living while we waited for the repair appointment, since not using our slide-out for weeks would cramp our bedroom more than we were interested.  

We also decided to use this needed repair as a time to take care of lingering problems we wanted to have resolved before our warranty coverage expired the following month.  So we winterized our home on wheels and dropped her off at Tom Schaeffer’s RV in Shoemakersville, PA on January 4th.

The “peace of mind” from a warranty comes with hassles and “hoop jumping”.

TRICK:  If you have a warranty, use it strategically.  If you don’t, don’t fret.  If you need to make a warranty claim on your RV, document and communicate clearly when repairs are needed.  Report issues as they occur, even if you “save up” the repairs for a later repair date.  Note dates, times, and important information at every step, as getting efficient, capable, and timely service is a real challenge.  If your RV is used and no longer has a manufacturer’s warranty, we suggest not bothering with purchasing an extended warranty.  Instead, build up an emergency fund for unexpected (but expected) repairs.  


Fortunately for us, we had a place to go while our RV waited for some TLC.  Part of what helps fund our full-time RVing lifestyle is a small business I run – managing two vacation rentals that I began in 2012 and 2015.  January is the slowest month of the year for our rentals, so we were off to our “foundation home” in Cape May Beach, New Jersey, for sticks and bricks living.  (Shameless plug:  DreamsComeTrueCottage.com).

Dreams Come True Cottage – Cape May Beach, New Jersey
Just 387 steps from door to dunes, and the best sunsets around!

TRICK:  Have a short-term and long-term exit strategy.  Options include maintaining a primary home, identifying a friend or family member with space, or acquiring land upon which you can “park it” for a while.  In our case, short-term rentals give us storage for personal items and a short-term place to stay when needed.  If it is during our busy rental season, we can park our rig on family property for a bit of “moochdocking” (dry camping in my brother and sister-in-law’s backyard!).


As a short-term rental owner, it is important to be on-site regularly to inspect the property for minor repairs, complete maintenance work, and plan future projects, making small improvements along the way.  So this visit was a fortuitous result of our RV breakdown.  While at our beach house, we prepared for some late winter renovations, making all the product selections and purchases needed for a bathroom renovation, and completed a long list of to-do list items from replacing our mailbox, to freshening up our linens, replacing some furniture, organizing closets, ordering replacement board-game pieces, posting instructions for use of various amenities, and even digitizing our guest guidebook.  

When the designated appointment came for our RV, we were delivered our next surprising blow – our slide-out problem was more than just the notorious “out-of-sync” problem and we now needed to wait for parts – another 6 – 8 weeks in this post-Covid world of supply-chain issues.  So we hunkered down for the long haul and focused on all the opportunities waiting for our attention at our short-term vacation rentals.

Be flexible when things go wrong.

TRUTH:  Things never quite go as planned (in RV life or “real life”, so allow for flexibility in your travels.  You will enjoy the journey more when you can bend with the realities of the life you must face.


We stayed at Dreams Come True Cottage for nearly two months, working nearly every day, and sprinkling in some fun along the way to enjoy our home away from home.  We enjoyed some restaurants, walked the sandy shores, hosted visits from a couple of our children, and saw some of the local sights, including the Cape May County Zoo and the Cape May – Lewes Ferry.  We routinely visited antique and thrift shops, and enjoyed the full-sized amenities and improved water pressure!

As the planned bathroom renovation was set to begin, we moved from the Jersey Shore to rural Pennsylvania with a visit to our other vacation rental   (Shameless plug #2:  CloversCottage.com).  We did more of the same at our second rental and again, sprinkled our visit with friends and family, visits to the farm market, the movies, and for me, many, MANY warm baths in the antique cast-iron clawfoot tub!  Ahh, the things I do miss during RV travel!

Clover’s Cottage – Hegins, Pennsylvania
Relax. Refresh. Reconnect.

Like clockwork, the parts arrived as expected, our warranty work was completed, and our beloved “mobile home” was ready for pickup after 11 weeks of “foundation living”.  It was unplanned but was really for the best.  We had nearly all of our warranty work completed, and we were able to end our “winter camping” sooner than expected – a welcomed change in plans.

We were fortunate that our breakdown happened in the worst of winter when I was tired of the cold (we were staying in PA/MD intentionally over the holidays to be near our families this year).  Our vacay rentals were unrented and therefore available to us and we were long overdue for a bigger visit to both properties.  The break from the road turned out to be just what the RV gods knew we needed! 

Pivot as needed and you might find a new itinerary you like more!

TRUTH:  When something goes awry and your travel is interrupted, it may just work out to be for the better! When your travels are interrupted, the very fact that you travel full-time means that you can usually put a little “pivot”in your itinerary.  Try to take it in stride – and you may just discover some really great “upsides” to your “side-trip”!  


Our itinerary “pivot” resulted in a visit with some of our “kids” to the Cape May County Zoo!

We will soon be ending our season-of-not-really-going-far with a repaired and beautiful rig, grateful hearts, and a welcome to warmer weather in North Carolina just in time for Easter!  We leave you, wishing you safe travels and one more “trick” for successful nomadic living:

TRICK:  If RV travel is on your life’s bucket list, create a way to DO IT!  Plan, save, sacrifice, and work hard.  Live debt-free and set specific goals to achieve your dream.  This lifestyle is an amazing journey, even through the trials and tribulations of “real life”!

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If you would like a getaway at one of our short-term vacation rentals, mention that you heard about us here on our blog and you will receive our “friends and family” discount!  CloversCottage.com and DreamsComeTrueCottage.com are waiting for you!

Safe travels, and always keep an RVing trick up your sleeve!
Our unexpected “beach trip” in the middle of winter was a really nice derailment of our original plans!

Keep It Simple With An RV Staycation – Move Less, Do More!

Roadtrip!

Summer is nearly two-thirds over already, and we have been very busy “seeing and doing”, despite the fact that we are not doing much traveling right now.  It is a staycation summer for us this year, hanging out near most of our family members in Pennsylvania and Maryland instead of launching a high mileage multi-state expedition.

It is not as glamorous and exciting as a big several-month itinerary, but sometimes “simpler” is just what we need to do.  The timing is right, based on current fuel prices, and being in one general area for an extended period of time allows us to take care of medical appointments, transportation tune-ups, and allows us to spend in-person time with our family members.

But while our travel pace may have eased up, we are still managing to have a lot of fun.  Following is a little review of our summer staycation highlights, past and planned by the time the first leaves fall from the trees in a few month.

While roadside farm stands can be found all around the country, I think there may just be a higher per capita number of them in Pennsylvania Amish country than in most other places.  There are roadside farm stands at nearly every turn, and with the help of Google Business and Google Maps, farmers have done a good job of helping us find them even when we travel unfamiliar roads.

Farm Stands

High on our shopping list, and what we have missed the most while traveling far and wide is corn and tomatoes!  Maryland Sweet Corn and regional summer tomatoes will stand toe-to-toe with any other regions of the United States.  Perhaps only the Jersey tomato has ever come close to the flavor and juiciness of what we find in our home states of Maryland and Pennsylvania!

So perhaps once or twice a week, we take a drive through the country where we are camping in south central and south east Pennsylvania – Gettysburg, Lancaster, Manheim, Hershey – and stock up on a variety of vegetables that will put every grocery store produce aisle to shame!  Ah yes, it is good to be “home”.

Crabs, Finally!

If my husband had to make a priority list for summer, there might be three things on it – tomatoes, sweet corn and crabs!  They are a Maryland tradition and our family roots run deep with all three culinary delights!  We grew up with tomatoes out of our garden (and as a kid, I didn’t even like tomatoes!), and it seems like we ate corn weekly from the farm stand a mile down the road from my childhood home in Fallston, MD.  But it was the Maryland steamed crabs at our grandparent’s house every summer that is the epitome of being a Marylander in summer!  

Our grandfathers (they were neighbors and friends) would go out on Andrew’s grandfather’s boat early in the morning, probably enjoying the quiet time together on the water with some cold beers, catch some bushels of crabs, and then bring them back to be steamed and seasoned in my grandparent’s backyard.  The Schmidt and Herming families would gather and a cookout would ensue for the rest of the day!

Since we traveled out west last summer, it had been since July of 2020 that we had a crab feast!  So the day arrived, and better still, it was a spontaneous and wonderful discovery in Hanover on a Friday afternoon.  Big Mike’s Crabhouse and Grill is far from fancy, but the crabs were larger than expected (advertised as mediums), and absolutely PERFECTLY steamed.  Better still, we now know that the place is BYOB, which saves on cost a bit.  I have no doubt that before our summer comes to an end, that another trip to the outdoor covered deck for a picnic table full of crabs is a likely event!

Farm and Flea Markets

We have hit one great market this summer and have plans for one pr two more before the season ends.  Roots Country Market and Auction in Manheim, PA is held every Tuesday and is a site to behold.  There are nine buildings in total, plus acres of outdoor grounds covered in stands with items for sale.  

Every trip there should begin early (as early as 6 am before the summer heat sets in), with a stroll through the outdoor flea market.  Filled with antiques, bargain household goods, vintage toys, books, clothes, movies and so much more, you will very likely find something you want or need at an affordable price.

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Once you stroll to the farm market side of the road, you will find an endless supply of produce, meats, cheeses, honey, plants, crafts, knick-knacks and much, much more.  On our visit there, we spent hours upon hours shopping, and never managed to set foot inside a building!  

Next on our list, we may make a Friday road trip to the Green Dragon Farmers Market and Auction in Ephrata, which looks to be similarly expansive in size, both inside and outside.

Let’s Go O’s!

No summer in or near “Bmore” would be complete without a little baseball, and this season, as the Orioles continue to improve, it is an exciting time for baseball!  Andrew and his son, Ben, made it to a game last month, that was rained out after some hours of hanging out under the upper deck.  Fortunately, they managed some ballpark food and some good visiting time before the game was called, and they will try again at the rescheduled game in mid-August.  

My fav ball player EVER – having the time of his life
at Camden Yards in 2017 as part of O’s Dream Week

Certainly on our fan future list, is a Ravens game as well.  As season ticket holders, it is nice to be in the area and be able to use some of our tickets personally for the first time in a couple seasons!

How is this the ONLY photo they took during the entire night?

Princeton, NJ and Bowman’s Hill Tower, Washington Crossing, PA

They don’t call it the Ivy League for nothin’!

The historic and quaint little city of Princeton, NJ had been on our wish list of places to see for quite some time, and we thought we might swing through the area on our way up to the New England states.  We found, however, that NJ is severely lacking in decent campgrounds in that area.  Therefore, we thought a day trip from Manheim, PA to Princeton would be just perfect.

We also stopped at nearby Bowman’s Hill Tower in Washington Crossing Historic Park.  We climbed the 127 steps to the top of a little known stone tower built in the 1930s.  It was built as a memorial to the important historical moments that happened in the area many years earlier.

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The town and the tower is a worthwhile visit for a number of reasons, but our visit is worthy of a separate telling, so stay tuned for more on this little road trip through Andrew’s childhood history.

New Hope, PA and a return to Washington Crossing Historic Park

Knowing there was more fun to be had in the region, we returned several weeks later for another day trip to dig into shopping in historic New Hope, PA.  The little town sits along the Delaware River (yes, the same one that George Washington crossed just a few miles away).  Filled with little stores, restaurants and the well known Bucks County Playhouse, New Hope has become a destination for shoppers that also enjoy the historic architecture and history on these narrow streets near the Delaware canal.

We returned, yet again, to the Washington Crossing Historic Park to dig into Revolutionary War history and the winter raid by George Washington’s men on Hessian forces across the Delaware River.  We would have liked to stay longer and see a bit more, but we found ourselves hampered by some specialty dark chocolate honey mints that we had purchased in New Hope that wouldn’t last long in the hot heat of the day.  Perhaps a third attempt some day will render the visit to this historic site fully complete!

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Thrift Shops Galore!

As much as I dislike retail shopping, there are some narrow circumstances in which I really enjoy shopping.  One of those is in pursuit of the perennial bargain, and one of my favorite ways to bargain hunt is to visit thrift stores in any little town we may visit.  One great discovery of this region of Pennsylvania has been that it is replete with thrift shops!

There are the usual shops – Salvation Army and Goodwill, some non-profit and faith-based shops as well as for-profit small businesses.  The common theme in Lancaster and Lebanon counties is that they are MANY in number and overall, of a quite nice quality.

One of my favorites this summer was the Humane Society of Lebanon County Thrift Shop.  It was neat, organized and affordable.  Best of all, it is completely run by volunteers and therefore, all proceeds benefit animals in need.

If clothing is your goal, then stop by Ali Witman Consignment in Lititz!  This place is huge and the quality and orderly arrangement of the products makes shopping easy and pleasant.

We have visited many others (and I hope to hit some more before the summer is over, fair warning, DH!).  I recommend using your Google Map skills and scratch out a little travel plan for your next shopping spree – you don’t have to go too far to hit several stores close by.

Air Supply and Farm-to-Table Dinner

A red wine flight and a Harvest Peach Old Fashion

For our slightly early wedding anniversary celebration, we donned the biggest 80s hair we could muster, and headed over to the American Music Theatre in Lancaster to see Air Supply in concert.  This 1,600 seat venue is new to us, but has been around for decades.  It was a musical trip down memory lane, for sure, and filled our love tanks with romantic ballads that we have enjoyed since the 1970s!

Two Less Lonely People In The World – one of my favs
(which grammatically, should be “fewer”, but that wouldn’t sound nearly as grood!

As part of our date night, Andrew arranged for what was a delicious meal at Harvest Seasonal Grill and Wine Bar.  He knew immediately that this restaurant was totally in my foodie lane, filled with a creative menu of food that was beautifully presented and equally delicious.  I cannot recommend this place enough – thoughtful and kind service, impeccable presentation, a clean and stylish building with a variety of seating options, and a menu that is healthy, varied (terrific Vegan options that even this non-Vegan loved), well curated cocktails, and amazing ingredients!  With most menu items under 500 calories, you won’t leave feeling disgusted by too much salt, unhealthy oils or a frozen or processed meal.  This is fresh and amazing – your body deserves this kind of food at every meal!

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With more than a month remaining in the summer of 2022, our RV Staycation still has a lot for us to look forward to!

Hershey Spa

My pre-wedding Hershey Spa day with my sis and SIL in 2015;
There is nothing like lunch and cocktails in a soft bath robe!

There is a gift certificate burning a hole in my pocket (a gift from my DH several years ago that I didn’t fully spend), so I will surely plan a day for us to visit my favorite day spa ever – The Hershey Spa, since we are in the area.  I plan a morning yoga class, use of the sauna, indoor pool and hot tub in the morning (all complimentary amenities when you schedule a spa service).  Then Andrew and I will wait in the aromatherapy room in our robes, until our names are called for a pair of luxurious facials!  It is quite a day!

Hershey Gardens

A magical date at Hershey Gardens in 2014 (and my first selfie with a boy, lol!)

Hershey is a great Pennsylvania town, and we would like to make a return visit to Hershey Gardens before the growing season is over.  This is the place where our second chance began in 2014, with a “second first date” almost exactly 30 years after our actual first date.  It was a magical date that lasted more than a dozen hours before it was all said and done.  We love to stroll the beautiful gardens that sit below the historic and equally beautiful Hershey Hotel.  It is also a joy to visit the butterfly atrium where we can feed, hold and look with wonder at the lovely little creatures that live an all too brief life spreading cheer and love wherever they flutter.

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Our 2022 RV Staycation plans will continue to grow as the weeks meander their way through the hazy heat of summer.  We will make the most of our time in the area, visiting with family and friends, but it isn’t all just adventure and day trips.  Despite perceptions to the contrary, the RVing life is not just a perpetual vacation, but surely, that is what I like to plan for, experience and record in this little digital journal.

There is still plenty of laundry to do, bills to pay, meals to prepare, groceries to buy, dishes to wash (and no dishwasher, yikes!), a little business to run and other projects to complete.  But what is the fun in writing and remembering the mundane in life?  Instead, we are in relentless pursuit of the fullness of life – companions on our journey.

Safe travels wishes from Tina and Stencil!

Safe travels, and may your journey, both the vacation time and the mundane alike, be enjoyed deeply.

OUTTAKES:

There has been much more to this “stationary” or “less traveling” phase of our live on wheels. Here is some of the other stuff we’ve been keeping busy with:

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Full-Time RVing Is A Life In Phases

This is our new rig, part of our very busy Phase II season! Does anyone have a name for her?

One of the best things about RVing, and full-time RVing in particular, is that there are endless different ways to do it!  Common terms you may see are “full-time stationary”, “snowbird”, “weekend warrior” and even “full-time traveling”.  They each describe the approach that camper(s) have taken for their RVing life.  Within each traveling style, there are additional descriptors, such as “retired”, “remote employed”, “work-kamper”, “volunteer RVer” and more!

RVers, including full-time RVers, come in all shapes, sizes and groups!  In our travels, we meet retired folks like my husband, part-time small business operators like me, families with children, young singles and even single travelers of a “certain age”!  There is as much diversity among RVers as there is in all of society!  What is most remarkable to me are the many people we meet that had little or no experience with camping before they launched their travels (like my DH).

It has been two years on the road – When will it end?

My dear husband and I are cautious planners, so we developed our full-time RVing plans over a number of years, researching the perfect rig (there is none!), the right tow vehicle (you don’t wanna get this wrong!) and developing our camping style (boondockers, state and federal parks, membership camping, etc).

All of this camping diversity is important to know about so that if you have ever dreamed about FT RVing, you also know that it can be done in a wide variety of ways!  Just don’t end up with the “shoulda, coulda, wouldas” and fail to ever take those first exploratory steps or set a concrete goal.  If you fail to set a goal and make a plan to get there, you will miss your FT RVing target every time.

We recently celebrated our 2nd FT RVing anniversary, and like last year, we took some time to reflect upon our lifestyle and touched base with each other to see “how we are doing”.  The consensus – two years in and we aren’t yet ready to come in off the road.

So today I thought it might be good to share our “state of the RV union”, so to speak, looking at how our travels seem to have changed from our original vision, and how our traveling life has made its way through different phases, giving us contentment in our nomadic lifestyle.

Phase I – “Pandemic-Modified Plans”

We launched our FT RVing adventure in July of 2020, in the middle of the infamous worldwide pandemic, so whatever plans we had made for travel, needed to be modified before we ever left our driveway.  Our campground membership with Thousand Trails saved us a lot of money and gave us a reliable place to stay that first fall and winter, since sightseeing was highly restricted and many campgrounds had limitations as well.  While we had planned to explore Florida and the southeast during those first months to stay closer to my youngest child, Ella, who had just left our nest after high school, we instead found ourselves “hanging out” in central Florida most of the time with limited sightseeing because of our Covid cautiousness (thankfully, we stayed safe and well!). 

Our Thanksgiving and Christmas campsites were close enough to Ella that she had a holiday place to visit (a goal of mine for those first holidays), and we decided to postpone our first big “kid visit” to Disney that January and instead, made a quieter visit with just the two of us.  As the pandemic took its course, we felt most comfortable remaining in this Phase I hiatus until the vaccine became available.  It was a great time to shake out our nerves and plan for Phase II.

Look here for our months of memories during Phase I:

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Phase II – The “Honeymoon”

Phase II began in spring 2021 as we emerged from the worst of the pandemic, drove north and swung by the PA/MD area to visit our family members before heading west on a summer adventure.  It took weeks to make all the reservations and build our itinerary, because as our country re-opened, RVers were ready to move once again!  

This is the romantic side of FT RVing that we all dream about – seeing amazing sights and having tremendous experiences of a lifetime.  We traveled across the midwest through Illinois, Indana, Missouri and Kansas, out to Colorado, and then circled up into Wyoming, Idaho and Montana before making our way back east in October of 2021.  

Throughout the extended summer season, Andrew’s adult children took us up on our invitation to visit, along with his brother and family and his best friend, Steve!  

Phase II continued with a great visit to Myrtle Beach for Thanksgiving, where we were blessed to be able to entice five of our six children to visit, followed by a return to Florida where we celebrated a quiet Christmas and ramped up for a big visit to Walt Disney World in January 2022.  We spent ten days preparing for, hosting and recovering from visits from five of our six kids and our future SIL as well.  

Just to keep us on our toes in Phase II, we managed to stumble upon a new Grand Design Solitude fifth wheel layout that we fell in love with (Solitude 346fls), which we ordered in August while in Montana and picked up in February in Missouri.  Finally, the honeymoon was over, and we slowly headed back east and into what we now call our Phase III of our FT RVing adventure in March 2022.  Look here for our memoirs from our months in the honeymoon phase:

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Phase III – “Reality Reset”

With many new state stickers on our travel map and a brand new RV in our possession, we initially thought that the time we had in the spring of 2022 would be spent planning our next big summer adventure (who doesn’t want a second honeymoon?!).  But we found that doing too much “go-go-go” may not be the best approach.  As we looked at our calendar, where we had already scheduled a summer exploration of the New England states, it became apparent that it was time to make another adjustment.

Our Phase II “honeymoon” really fille up our map – but there is sooo much more we want to see!

Our nephew, Jonathan, was getting married in March.  Andrew’s youngest child, Abby, was graduating from college in May, my brother, Mike, was set to celebrate retirement from a 25 year career in law enforcement (good riddance!) in July,  and our favorite future son-in-law, Chris, was scheduled to become part of the family in early September.  At the same time, we found good reasons to visit our mothers and children for a while, helping where we can and reconnecting in a way that is best done with more regular in-person visits and fewer video calls.  

So we took advantage of our best asset as FT RVers – we can be extremely FLEXIBLE.  The New England plans were canceled and we made reservations for the entire summer via our Thousand Trails Membership and our recently acquired Coast To Coast membership.  As we pass our “two-year mark” and head into the fall, we change campgrounds every two to three weeks, sticking in the Gettysburg/Hershey/Lancaster region of Pennsylvania.  In doing so, we eliminated nearly all campsite fees for the summer (C2C costs us $10 per night, TT is free).

We have used this time that is sort-of stationary, to schedule dental cleanings, wedding-prep shopping, health check-ups and oil changes, dinners with the kids, visits to our moms and day trips to Princeton, NJ, New Hope, PA and every farm market and thrift shop I can shake a stick at (there are soooo many of both in this Amish/Mennonite/tourist parts of the Keystone state).

One part of our FT RVing life that gives us an advantage is our vacation rental business.  We have two properties that can give us some travel downtime if we need it occasionally.  But it wasn’t until this summer that we first came off the road for a week and stayed at our rural Pennsylvania cottage (www.CloversCottage.com), where we hosted Abby’s graduation party with family and friends.  It was nice to have some time to spread out a bit, take care of some property maintenance, and most of all – TAKE A BATH in our antique claw-footed bathtub (perhaps the thing that I miss the most because of life in an RV).

Before our Reality Reset Phase III is complete, we will also visit our Cape May Beach cottage for a combined maintenance and fun stay.  When complete, and as the autumn leaves flutter to the ground, we will wrap up our visit to the area and move on to wherever we decide is next!  In the coming weeks, my stories of our new semi-stationary reality will be posted as well! In the meantime, here are some photos:

Phase IV – To Be Determined

As we look ahead to this fall and winter, we are still deciding where the road will take us.  Where do we want to visit?  How close to Mom should we be?  When is our next medical appointment?  How much cold weather do we want to face?  How will we next be able to see the kids?  Will we finally make it to New England next summer?

No matter our direction or destination, we have learned that the journey will be special and our time together will be treasured.  I have my love by my side and though the plans will vary, and we must be willing to make adjustments for the challenges in life, we know we are blessed to live this life and can make it through to the end of the road, wherever that may be.

Beauty and serenity can be found in many ways in your RV life.

POSTSCRIPT

We often get questions about “where or when does it end”.  For us, we went into FT RVing with a general exit strategy in mind, but we had no preconceived notions about how long it may last.  There was always the possibility that we could hastily return to “sticks and bricks” living after only six weeks on the road, but we also knew that it was quite possible that this lifestyle could be open-ended.  

There will come a time when FT RVing is no longer our first choice, but we envision a hybrid in our future, while our health permits it, where we can both travel and have a “sticks and bricks” home base.  We dream of a nice little mountain plot of land out west with RV hookups or a lakeside cottage on the east coast that may be big enough for family to visit.  I would like to once again find a community that we can really feel a part of, with a little church family where we feel like we are a part of something bigger than just our little home on wheels.  We don’t yet know how our story ends, but we welcome the journey every day.

Safe travels, and be sure to make all your RV dreams come true!

Our Dog Bug Journeyed Joyfully All The Way

Once our daughter, Ella went off to college, every time we saw her, she would implore our old dog, Bug, to please live long enough for her to see him again.  “Just live another four months, Buggy, so we can see each other again”, were her words to him as we said goodbye.  Her sad farewell was during a brief visit we made in the Gainesville, Florida, Walmart parking lot where we saw her on a work break as we were passing through the area in January (since becoming empty nesters, we have been traveling full-time RVers).  For several years, it was clear that Bug was showing his age and slowing down, so this visit, like the last several, ended with tears in Ella’s eyes and a crack in her voice as she nuzzled his face before returning to work.

Now it was suddenly four months later, and Ella had to accelerate her travel plans by a day just to increase the likelihood that she and Bug could keep their promise to see each other for a final visit.  He had just turned 13 years old two days earlier, and just days before that, had taken a turn for the worse.  It was clear now that he had lost his pure and innocent joy in living and that it was now our duty as his family, to relieve him of his earthly pains and send him on to “greener pastures”.

Fortunately, we were already camping in Pennsylvania, in a region near all our family members (except for Ella).  With kids, siblings and parents living in Pottsville, Felton and Hanover, Pennsylvania and Parkton, Jarrettsville, Towson and Baltimore, Maryland, so everyone had the opportunity to visit with Bug (and us) in the weeks leading up to his last days.

But it was Ella that had always expressed strong feelings about being with Bug at the end of his journey.  Unfortunately, she managed to sleep through her alarm and miss her early morning flight!  She spent the next 18 hours in airports – booking, canceling and waiting on standby for a number of flights, finally arriving, with the help of her brother, Lorne, just before midnight on the evening before Peaceful Paws Passage was to arrive to help us send Bug over the Rainbow Bridge.

Lorne and Ella slept overnight in our fifth wheel trailer where we live full-time as RVer travelers.  They were both exhausted from a long week of worry and sad news, each on one of our two guest beds in our home-on-wheels, and each with a dog (Calvin and Bug) beside them to quite happily keep them company.

Once we gently lifted him into bed, Bug waited patiently for Ella to join him in our guest bed for their final sleepover together.

Morning arrived too soon and it was a pleasing, sunny day at Gettysburg Farm Campground (full of earthly “greener pastures” we knew Bug to love).  Ella and Lorne took Bug and Calvin for a final walk around the working-farm-turned-campground while their sister, Adalie, drove down to meet us all for Bug’s looming appointment (Lorne and Adalie had already visited Bug for the afternoon two days earlier and they were able to take the doggos on a nice walk through all the sights and smells as well).

Lorne visiting Bug in his last, tired days…
…but no matter how tired he grew, he ALWAYS wanted to go take a walk!

Bug was always a dog that was led by his nose, and in his final weeks of life, taking a walk was just about the last remaining happy part of his day.  Now that he was older and slower, he would lead us out to the farm fields that surrounded the outer edge of the campground and we would let him off leash, allowing him to fully follow his nose and natural inclination to sniff his way along the path.  Because he was slower, he finally listened to us well; a little verbal cue from me was all that was needed to slow him down until we could catch up to him. With his head covered in as much grey fur as black and white, and now hanging low and slightly to the right from his disabilities of age, he journeyed joyfully through the fallow fields.

When Bug was younger, he was more likely to “turn off” his ears once his nose took over, so his off-leash time was strictly limited (outside of our fenced back yard at the time) to days at our weekend cottage, and even then, he couldn’t be completely free to roam.  Instead, our country-bumpkin solution was to attach a lead to him on one end, and a bucket or large piece of pvc pipe to the other.  It was just enough drag and resistance to cause Bug to not wander too far too fast while we enjoyed the rural acreage of our cottage property. It was ridiculous, but highly effective in giving him both freedom and protection.

All three of my kids gathered together, along with me and my husband, Andrew, for the first time since Thanksgiving.  Now that we all lived in separate states, such get-togethers were extra special, but today, while special, was not going to be easy.  We laid out a blanket in the lush green grass, offered Bug some of his favorite treats, and encouraged him to lay down and relax on the ground.  Relaxing had become difficult for him in recent weeks and he often looked disoriented and unsure of how to settle down, rotating in circles a number of times, or trying to dig a little hole in the dirt before finding his place.

The kind and gentle veterinarian waited for our signal, and after about ten minutes of the five of us crying and giving Bug encouraging words in an effort to not cause him concern, the vet gave him a sedative that would render him unconscious over a 10-15 minute period.  It was in those minutes that I could see the pain and worry slowly melt away from his body.  Bit by bit, he got lower to the ground; first his tail, then his chin, and slowly his body settled softly and peacefully into the blanket on the grass in the breezy sunshine, with Ella lying beside him, Lorne sitting next to him, and Adalie standing, and then sitting nearby, all three kids petting and touching him.  

It was at this moment that I realized just how tense Bug had been these last weeks.  Even while sleeping, he was always unsettled, and seemed slightly distressed.  A dog seems to know, often better than his humans, when his time and purpose on earth is ending, and his sleeping moments in recent days, weeks and months now contrasted greatly with how relaxed and calm he was with a little help from the sedative.  His body was finally, truly resting, and he breathed quiet breaths in absolute serenity.

The vet waited patiently again, and having already explained clearly how the process of pet euthanasia worked, we knew that the next injection would be unfelt and would result in a quiet cessation of Bug’s breathing.  Each of us took a moment to speak to Bug as the sedative quietly helped him fall asleep.  Adalie told him what a good dog he had been for our family.  Ella reminded him that he could soon see our old dog, Jake, who had passed several years earlier.  Lorne sat next to Bug on the blanket and quietly petted his soft, gray ear.  Andrew stood nearby with our ten year old dog, Calvin, who soon would be a “single dog” for the first time in his life.  I stood beside my loved ones and tried to absorb this “life moment” that somehow represented something much more than the loss of a loved family pet.

By the time Bug came into our family as a puppy, it had been 18 years since I had a puppy.  I had not forgotten about the work and commitment it takes to raise a puppy, but for my husband at the time, Dave, having “one last puppy” was a dream fulfilled.  He reminded me what a treat it would be for our three young children to have the “puppy experience” now that they were old enough to understand the responsibility of having a family dog.  So Dave insisted, I relented, and Bug became a part of our family as a puppy in the fall of 2009.

Bug’s first puppy outing to Knoebels Grove Amusement Park for a scouting event.
October, 2009 – Ella and Bug Halloween camping in Hershey, PA
Bug was there for all the big moments, including this first day of school in the fall of 2010.
Adalie, Lorne, Ella and Bug enjoying the outdoors at extended Thanksgiving weekend at our cottage in Hegins, PA, 2009 (at the start of hunting season, thus the orange woodsy outdoor attire).

His mom was a Beagle mix, rescued by a non-profit organization made up of foster families for dogs saved from high-kill shelters, and Bug was a part of her litter.  He had his mother’s Beagle bay, and certainly the strong “nose” of a Beagle, but he was black and white, perhaps the colorings of his unknown father.  He joined our family at the perfect time, when life was a full and busy family of three children, ages 7, 10 and 13.  It was the best of times for our family, and my husband finally had his puppy companion to ride in the truck with him and be his most loyal friend.

A warm lap in Dec 2009
Working partners, Jan 2010

Bug took up his role quickly, as he was clearly a “man’s dog”.  He was not needy or outwardly adoring of his humans, and showed little overt interest in other dogs, other than to give them a quick sniff, but he was rather a relaxed and friendly buddy to his favorite man.  Always interested in his next meal or playing with his dog toy (usually a squeaky plush toy whose insides could be disemboweled in a matter of minutes), he was neither high strung or overly affectionate.  He played his love a little cool, and as such, Bug fit in well with our family.  My husband finally got to have “his puppy” for what he promised would be our “one last time”.

A year and a half later, the promise of “one last time” took on a new meaning as tragedy struck our family and my husband of 18 years died suddenly.  Bug was with him that day, and it was Bug’s panicked barking that alerted a neighbor nearby to the accident that had taken Dave’s life on a small acreage of wooded land we had purchased only months earlier.  “Dave’s puppy” was brought home to us that day as we suddenly tried to figure out how to now be a very different family than any of us planned for or wanted.

Bug was with us through those terribly difficult years and the innocent and pure love of that dog helped to normalize our life that felt anything but normal.  He would cuddle with Ella as she no doubt cried herself to sleep, missing her dad as only a nine year old little girl could.  He ran around the yard chasing bunnies as Lorne tried to find his place as the “man of the house” at age 11.  Having just turned 15, Adalie worked her way through high school without her dad to help guide her, as Bug’s care gave us a simple unified purpose.  Bug remained the ever-present family member with a playful and contented demeanor in our home, modeling a pleasure in life as only dogs do, and giving us hope that we each might someday find the same for ourselves.

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My father (the kid’s “Morfar”, Swedish for mother’s father), quickly became Bug’s natural next favorite man.  Morfar was a great source of excess treats and “people food” that Bug probably shouldn’t have been eating, and in those years, my parents and siblings did their best to be more present in our lives, even though we lived hours apart.  My dad picked up where Dave had left off, and they had a special bond that benefited my dad as much as Bug.  Each visit began with Bug wiggling with excitement as he realized that Morfar was nearby.  Even after my father’s death two years before Bug passed, Bug would show great excitement each time we visited my childhood home, no doubt because Bug expected Morfar to be there to greet him.

Morfar ALWAYS shared his meals
Bug shows his loyalty and preferences for Morfar

Eventually, although not easily or elegantly, we made it through our most difficult years, with Bug by our sides for each challenging step we took.  The children grew older, we moved from our home in Pennsylvania to my home state of Maryland, and I remarried.  The children grew into young adults, leaving home one-by-one to pursue their adulthood dreams and to build their independent lives.  

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My new husband, Andrew, quickly became Bug’s new favorite man, and as we joined our families together, Andrew’s two dogs, Jake (Golden Retriever mix) and Calvin (Bassett-Plott Hound mix), became Bug’s “dog pack”.  As had happened each time our family changed, Bug picked a man to which his loyalties and love were placed.  Andrew was that “best man” for Bug for the remaining eight years of Bug’s life and they were great companions, with Andrew always ready to show love and affection to our furry family members and Bug ready to go absolutely anywhere with Andrew.

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Bug continued to be the steadfast yet lovingly standoff-ish part of our ever-evolving “family life” with a wagging tail and a happy nuzzle to come home to; he was our only constant in the 13 years we loved him.  His life corresponded to the best of our lives, the worst of our lives, and a return once more to goodness and pleasure in life as Andrew and I, newly empty nesters, took our family pets (Bug, Calvin and cat, Stencil) on the road to see the country from our cozy home base fifth wheel RV.  He had been through it all with us – riding the wild adventures of life at its worst and best.  For nearly two years, Bug saw many states in the United States with us, always thrilled to ride in the truck anywhere our travels took us.

Northern Idaho, near the west entrance to Yellowstone National Park, Summer 2021
Upcountry South Carolina, June 2019
Where are we headed next?! I am ready!

When the time seemed right, I gave the vet the go-ahead to send Bug on his way, and as we all felt the pain of loss, we knew that Bug was in good hands for his entire journey.  “Tell Dad and Morfar we said ‘hello’”, I said as I smiled through my tears and imagined Bug crossing over a beautiful, colorful archway to the heavens.  The five of us wept openly, and despite feeling a sense of loss, we knew this was the ideal way to say goodbye to our beloved family member.  In a matter of minutes, we watched Bug leave our lives, and move on to a perfect eternity to be reunited with others whom he had loved.

Pet euthanasia is a gift we give to our pets – a thank you for their unconditional love and devotion to us.  It was an honor to help Bug cross over that Rainbow Bridge, feeling peace and love as he trusted us to care for him his entire life.  We are grateful to have had this little, sometimes ornery puppy to walk through the highs and lows of our family life for thirteen years.  He was a gift of unconditional love that we will always treasure.

Safe travels, to Bug and all our furry loved ones – from here to eternity – until we play again.


Safe travels, Bug, and have a joyful journey!

Outtakes

Bug got his name at Ella’s 9th birthday party just a few days after we brought him home. After narrowing down to a few final choices, we asked all of the party guests to drop a name in the jar. Guests added their own suggestions, and after all the votes were in, there was no clear winner. We sort of defaulted to “Bug”, as it was just quirky enough that it fit his personality. He was “as snug as a bug in a rug”, “as cute as a bug”, and sometimes, he just seemed “as dumb as a bug”. But he was our Bug, and we loved him.
Food was a big motivator for Bug, so from an early age, he was always ready to help “clean” the dishwasher when we weren’t looking (a pre-rinse cycle, of sorts). He also loved empty peanut butter jars, unattended garbage bags, broccoli stumps and carrots. We called him our mountain goat, because it wasn’t unusual to enter the kitchen and find him standing on top of the kitchen table in an attempt to see what we might have left behind.
Bug actually was an old dog that could learn new tricks! He was abiyt 7 years old when he learned to “speak” or and ten years old when he learned to roll over on command (both for treats, of course). Speaking generally took several attempts…at first, just an awkward sneeze or two, followed by a little snortle, and eventually a full-fledged “bark” on command!
Bug loved his toys and treats! He would eagerly unwrap gifts of a squeeky toy, would tear apart a stuffed toy with sheer joy, or delicately nibble off the fuzz on a tennis ball. When younger, he would even chase a toy or ball, but he would NEVER bring it back to us. Instead, he would reach the toy, then stay in that spot to enjoy it all by himself.
What kind of mom gives her son only half of a birthday cake? The kind of mom that has ornery Bug as a family pet! At Lorne’s surprise 13th camping themed birthday party with friends, Bug was put in the camper to stay out of trouble…except Mom forgot that the birthday cake had been placed in the camper as well, ironically enough, for safe keeping. Several minutes later, after Bug had found and enjoyed much of the cake, we needed to cut away the dog0destriyed section to be able to sing Happy Birthday and salvage something for Lorne to make his wish!

In all the years that Bug eagerly chased bunnies and squirrels, there was only once (well, sort of twice) that he struck it rich. As Bug came into the house in fall 2011, it was clear he was hiding something from us in his mouth. I grabbed the camera while Adalie (the brave one), donned gloves and pried his prize from his mouth in the kitchen. Minutes later, out fell an ENTIRE RABBIT HEAD! Through screams of disgust, we saw that Bug had found what must have been a very slow bunny (or perhaps an already dead bunny) in our back yard. After the head, he spat up a little bunny kidney, some more fur, and for the next 10 ours, managed to throw up MANY times – both inside and outside the house.

His second infamous bunny incident was hardly “catching” a bunny, but it did nearly cause Lorne to excommunicate Bug from the family. Lorne came into the house upset because he believed that Bug had found a mouse nest and was upset to see him tossing the poor little things all around the yard like play-things. Upon investigation, and to his increased horror, what Bug had actually found was a nest of day-old baby bunnies. He had decimated the entire nest within minutes, and from that day forward, the rabbits in our back yard got smarter, placing all their nests safely under the children’s playhouse – out of Bug’s reach yet close enough to give him hours of fun sniffy and chasing.

It was a sad day in central Florida in fall 2020 when we thought we were gonna lose him too soon. Through no fault of his own (just laying in the grass in our campsite), Bug was backed up over by a campground employee’s truck! Fortunately, the ground was soft from the sandy soil and recent rain, and miraculously, the only injury was a dislocated rear hip. It took six weeks of tender loving care (leg retracted into an sling to keep it immobile, followed by carefully controlling his jumping and sudden moves for the rest of his years (dislocated hips often can pop out of place again). But he returned fully to his cheerful little self and recovered sufficiently to trot along and really savor is “retired, traveling life”.

If You Build It (The Holiday Celebration), They Will Come!

The truth is, you miss your loved ones when living on the road.  While there are many families around the country and the world that live far away from their children, parents and siblings, it is a somewhat new experience for us.  We are new-ish empty nesters, so that transition can be tough even if you haven’t moved into a house on wheels.  But once you are mobile, every exciting destination is another series of miles farther away from those you love.

So it was with this distance in mind that we decided to try to lure our loved ones to us for Thanksgiving and Christmas. We believed that if we could find some great places to visit, we might just be able to host a big Thanksgiving dinner or a fun Christmas celebration from our little ol’ camper.

The dunes of Pirateland Family Camping Resort, Myrtle Beach, SC

Well, I think we struck holiday gold!

This is how we did it and how it felt.

Thanksgiving:  

Months before the holiday, we selected Pirateland Family Camping Resort in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina as our destination for Thanksgiving.  There was a chance the weather could be as warm as the high 60s, but also a risk of much colder temperatures.  Fortunately, the holiday week leaned toward the warmer side.  The other advantage is that Myrtle Beach is a drivable distance from Maryland and Pennsylvania where most of our children live and has a generally quick and affordable flight option from the Baltimore airport (but not from Gainesville, FL), so we could extend an invitation to more of our loved ones.

Welcome to our Thanksgiving campsite!

I love Pirateland because it is right on the Atlantic coast.  I have been there twice before, but my parents went there for many years, and like us, always in the off-season when the crowds are low, the prices are lower and the weather is mild.  This year, we booked a month, with a beachy site only five sites from the dunes.  Very affordable with longer stays in the off-season, campers can stay for as little as $30 a night, tax free for a stay of three months or longer.  

We could hear the waves rolling in from our beds at night.

We extended an invitation to all six of our kids, our future son-in-law, our moms and our friends, Steve, Kenda and Katie.  By the time everyone committed yea or nay, we were happy to discover that we would be hosting a Thanksgiving dinner for ten!  We booked an extra campsite for the days around Thanksgiving, and found a camper to rent on Outdoorsy.com (not an endorsement, but a decent experience), which would give the kids a place to stay comfortably nearby.  Steve and his family also booked an adjacent site, and arrived with their Class C RV.

The “kid camper” sat in a site alongside our own.

In the weeks leading up to Thanksgiving, I collected seashells, driftwood and sand to create a pretty tablescape.  I painted autumnal cups for each guest.  We bought lights on a string and set up our Clam Quick Set Pavilion Camper (we love ours, but would have loved the Escape Sky Camper more, had it been available for purchase!) adjacent to the campground’s pavilion to create a windbreaker and larger dining and serving area.  We even put out our little outdoor Christmas tree, with fresh new color-changing lights to usher in the festive spirit.  Our Solo Stove (not a sponsorship of this site, just a big fan!) provided a warm campfire on chilly nights, and we stocked up on a variety of beverages and snacks for the surrounding days.  We shopped for spare blankets and sheets to accommodate our visitors and took a number of trips to the grocery store, much like we did around the holidays for many years from our sticks and bricks home.  The preparation was familiar and exciting to a mom that missed “nesting” opportunities with no children at home.

An outdoor dining room fit for a bunch of beach bums!

When Thanksgiving week arrived, we had friends and kids arriving on a few different days, which further built up the excitement as each person arrived.  Even my son, Lorne, was able to arrange a few unexpected days off from work and a last minute flight.  Ella endured long and circuitious flights from Gainesville, and Adalie made the flight despite flying not being her favoriate thing to do! It was the first time I was blessed with a visit from all three of my kiddos since our “Bon Voyage Crab Feast” in July 2020.  As the big day arrived, our hearts were full of joy, filled with nearby friends and family.  We embraced the busyness and slept a little more peacefully at night.

Many of the beach area campsites have covered pavilions, and we added our screen room to protect us from any weather that could interrupt our celebration.
No fine china here, and don’t worry if you get a little sand on your dinner plate!

We all shared in the meal preparation, as we found that any one RV kitchen capacity would struggle to provide such a large meal.  It worked out great because everyone was kept just busy enough with meal preparation but not too busy that we couldn’t relax as well.  We stood around in the sand of our Thanksgiving “dining room” to share a blessing and then sat down to a feast that rivaled any we had enjoyed for the years we lived more traditionally.  Andrew and I, along with Steve and Kenda, sat at the “old people table” and I smiled as I listened to the quiet chatter at the nearby “young adult table”.  Our children (and friend Katie), were chattering, laughing, joking and enjoying this now-very-rare time together.

Dinner (and dessert) is served!
Yum!…and a scene that gives a parent’s heart great peace.
Two tables for 10 (and some dogs)!

During their all-too-brief visit, some of us enjoyed an afternoon discovering some of the many thrift stores in the area, and nearly everyone left with a bargain or two.  We took walks on the beach and some made s’mores by the campfire at night.  By all accounts, Thanksgiving 2021 was an enjoyable and filling success.  Both my stomach and my heart were filled with all things good that week, with a very traditional, yet non-traditional Thanksgiving holiday.

Blessings from the sandy dunes of Pirateland Family Camping Resort.

Christmas: 

When we launched our full-time RVing life, it was a fairly new concept to at least half of our loved ones, so we wanted to begin our trip by inviting our kids to camp with us at Walt Disney World.  Alas, Covid had other plans, and for a variety of reasons, we postponed the trip one year so that we might instead celebrate “Christmas in January” in 2022.

After a year’s delay, the invitations were issued and the flights (or bus reservations, for Ella) were booked.  This time we used our pop-up screen room as a tent and we squeezed our camper and the tent into one site at The Campsites and Disney’s Fort Wilderness (if you are a camper, you gotta try this outrageously expensive campground at least once).  We decided early on that for this trip, we were gonna go “all in” on making this trip “all inclusive” for the kids, as this was going to be their (and our) Christmas gift all wrapped into one fabulous trip.  

So as each kid responded with the dates they could join us, we booked shuttle rides from the airport, bought park tickets, made park reservations, and learned how to maximize our attractions with Disney’s ridiculously expensive Genie+ service (like the old Fastpass service, but no longer free).

Park passes for EVERYONE!

I pre-assembled meals in the freezer for each day we had guests and then dumped the meal into the InstantPot each day upon return from a park for an easy yet tasty meal.  We stocked up on a ton of candy and healthy snacks that we could all take into the park each day (the food at Disney is costly, and mostly meh), and budgeted a daily stipend for each kid that they could use as they wish for food, drinks or souvenirs.

Pre assembled Instant Pot freezer meals kept us well fed in a simple way!
Plenty of candy (and healthy snacks) for everyones park backpacks
Beverages of all kinds!

Once again, we made sure the “house” and “yard” were decorated for the belated Christmas celebration, with string lights, garland, two mini Christmas trees and even artificial snow and snowballs on the ground.  We had travel hand sanitizers and holders, and mask lanyards to help keep everyone safe while in crowds, and handed out passes so that everyone could gain entrance to the parks and have photos taken by Disney PhotoPass cast members along the way.

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Because there was less overlap of visitors than we had hoped, we pushed through a four day stretch of visiting parks before we could enjoy a day of “rest” back at camp.  It was a complicated schedule that my dear husband, Andrew, developed so that each visiting kid could at least have an opportunity to see their “favorite” park during their stay, no matter how brief their visit.  It was successful but tiring!  

Throughout much of that week, Andy and I experienced moments of “parental peace”, which is an elusive feeling for parents and quite an oxymoronic term.  Perhaps it was the Disney magic, sprinkling a little Pixie Dust on our group, or maybe it was the fact that our kiddos were all now young adults, ages 20 – 30 years of age.  Whatever was the cause – we felt peace

Sometimes it happened as Andy and I strolled hand in hand, a few steps ahead of a couple of the kids.   We heard their laughing, cajoling, and complete excitement as they experienced Disney.  It happened as we watched two of the girls excitedly spot amazing animals on the Animal Kingdom Kilimanjaro Safari ride.  It happened again as we screamed and held onto each other on the Hollywood Studious Tower of Terror.  It certainly happened as we all got goosebumps and tears in our eyes, looking out across the sky at EPCOT’s spectacular laser, water, music and fireworks Harmonious show.  It even occurred when we happened upon our first Disney Characters in the Magic Kingdom that returned us all briefly to their childhoods.  In their presence we were witness to their happiness – and that is the secret ingredient in parenting that gave us the gift of “parental peace”.

In all, we were able to see each of our kids and our future son-in-law at one or both of our holiday celebrations this year, but we never had a moment when they were all with us together at the same time.  As is true for any mother, you never sleep as well as the nights that all of your children are under the same roof with you, and while we were not quite successful in getting us all there at one moment, for a group of adults, each with busy lives, we came pretty darn close.  When that night happens some day, when my husband, my three children, my three bonus children, and their significant others are all with us at the same moment – yes, I will sleep very well with a happy heart full of parental peace.

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Adalie, Lorne, Ella, Christy, Chris, Ben and Abby – we miss each and every one of you wherever we go, and we always look ahead to the next time we are together.

Love, Mom/Tina and Dad/Andrew

Safe travels and many blessings for togetherness in your journeys.

Cheers, from us to you. (When your loved ones cannot be with you in person, Google Duo on the beach for “happy hour” with my mom is the next best thing!)

Montana – Not A Tourist Trap But Rather A Great Destination

The DeSmet – on Lake McDonald, in Glacier National Park

Our Montana summer has been amazing, and this is my final post about our experiences there. Altogether, our month and a half in the state warranted five blog posts, each highlighting a different experience and area of the state.

In case you missed them:

This final post is all the touristy stuff we did with our loved ones that were visiting.  It was some of the best fun of our summer.

THIS is Montana – Not A Tourist Trap, But Rather A Great Destination!


Andy and I looked forward to this leg of our trip because this is when we got to share this amazing state with loved ones!  We were thrilled to find out that our friend, Steve, was going to visit us in Montana!  Right as his visit had to end, we then welcomed Christy and Chris, our daughter and future son-in-law (it is so cool that we can say that now! Go read my last post if you want to read those details!).  THIS was going to be quite the summer!!!

The shadow box in our RV that welcomed our guests and celebrated the great stat of Montana!

Steve flew in from South Carolina and caught up with us in Anaconda, MT at Fairmont RV Park.  (Side note:  We don’t recommend you stay at this campground, because the owners are miserable and mean, but not to worry, the facility was decent and the views pretty.  We made do without a picnic table or firepit).

The view at our “back door” at Fairmont RV Park in Anaconda, MT

One of the first orders of business upon Steve’s arrival was the need to share the secret news of the upcoming engagement with Steve.  Steve is the consummate planner, so we knew that he could be helpful in scouring Glacier National Park for some great options.  But first, some fun with our friend!  

We went into Butte a couple of times.  Our first stop was at the Granite Mountain Speculator Mine Disaster Memorial.  This is where we learned about hard rock mining.  We have seen signs of mining all summer, throughout Colorado and all the way north through Montana.  Most notably, we have been lulled to sleep by the sound of trains and train whistles at nearly EVERY campground ALL SUMMER (I think there was ONE campground not near a train track, but I honestly cannot recall which one it might have been).  We have seen signs of mining wherever we went and learned of how mining has played a role in the history of the west.

In Butte, the 1917 disaster was difficult but important to learn about.  An accidental fire in the mine led to the death of 166 miners on that fateful day, and more than a century later, we had the privilege and honor to visit the site and wrap up our hearts in the beautiful memorial.  It was well done and educational at the same time.  If you ever find yourself in Butte, this should be your first stop.

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Our next stop was equally telling and informative – the Berkley Pit.  It is a place where we learned of the tremendous and tragic environmental impact hard rock mining has on our planet.  While beautiful in a unique way, this once massive copper mining area is now a giant pit that has filled with a very caustic and dangerous mine runoff.  It was amazing to see how something so dangerous can also be so pretty at the same time.

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A gentleman that used to live in the area and had returned for a visit was at the site when we were there.  He was a great help at explaining the history and tragedy of the place.  This mining stop is worthwhile (and with a very small admission cost) even if you don’t think mining is of any interest to you.

The third and final touristy stop for us was also related to mining.  We spent a few hours at the World Museum of Mining.  It was an entire historic mining town recreated on the site of the former Orphan Girl Mine, which operated from 1875 to the 1950s and produced silver, lead and zinc.  Historic buildings were relocated from other areas and moved here to create a realistic little mining town and an immersive education into hard rock mining.  Most of the museum was established in the 1970s and is a little worn looking, but it felt as if that only added to the hardworking feel that must have been in place back when the original mining town popped up around the Orphan Girl mine.  It was an easy self-guided look into the industry, but guided tours of the mine itself were also available.

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While in the area, we did manage to eat a decent meal in town and we made a quick stop at The Historic Clark Chateau Museum and Gallery, a historic home that is now open for self-guided tours (you may also like the Copper King Mansion, but we were unable to tour the site due to limited tour times).  We also enjoyed a stroll down the street just to take in the beauty of some of the old homes in the area.  If you are a fan of old architecture, this is a nice home, but none that we saw came close to the MUST SEE old home we wrote about previously in Sheridan, Wyoming – Why, Oh Wyoming – Casper And Sheridan We May Be Back.

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The unexpected fun of the week was a road trip to “The Yellowstone”!  Yes, you read that right! Steve casually mentioned that we were within striking distance of the well known fictional “Dutton Ranch”, so it was time for a drive!  We headed out through some amazing scenery on a road that was higher, and narrower and prettier than we had imagined it would be.  Included was a photo shoot with our first ram sighting!  What a treat!  

Then it was on to lunch for what the guys agreed was the BEST.  BURGERS.  EVER.  at Bitter Root Brewery and Restaurant.  That is certainly saying something!  Lunch was really amazing for me as well (Gyro), and of course we had to try a couple of the locally brewed beers.  

Our next drive that day was to TV-land for a roadside peek at the fictional Dutton Ranch, but what is actually named the Chief Joseph Ranch, in Darby, Montana.  The photos show the extent of the visit (you cannot go on the property unless you are a guest in one of their rental cabins), but since that time, Andy and I have been re-watching and devouring all three seasons of the show in anticipation of the November debut of season four on Paramount!

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As we wrapped up our visit with Steve, we headed over to our next and perhaps most anticipated destination so far….Glacier National Park.  It was here that the guys got serious about honing in on the PERFECT proposal location for Chris and Christy! 

A little shopping with Andrew, Tina ad Steve in West Glacier Village.

The West Glacier RV Park is among my most favorite campgrounds all summer for a couple of important reasons:  1.  We were surrounded by mountains and a big sky that gave the state its “Big Sky” nickname, and 2.  We were only a couple of minutes from the park entrance.  We could not have asked for prettier views from our front door, brighter stars at night, or a campsite any closer to Glacier Park!

West Glacier Village RV Park with beautiful views on all sides
The view from our “back yard”.

We immediately ventured into GNP for an evening spectacular, discovering the gorgeous Lake McDonald and McDonald Lodge, which would be the centerpiece of some future fun during our stay.  We stopped along some roadside pullouts on the lower end of the Going To The Sun Road, and we looked all around for proposal opportunities.  Andrew had his eyes set on a hike to Avalanche Lake by way of the Trail of the Cedars and Steve set up mental photo-taking opportunities at the Sacred Dancing Cascades, which would also make for a most perfect scene for a proposal.  As darkness fell, we planned for a big day when Chris and Christy arrived, because we had only that one day to fully scope out the perfect location (and still help Chris keep it all a secret!).

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Glacier International Airport is only a 30 minute drive from the park, in nearby Kalispell and it is quaint and adorable.  We picked up our 2nd and 3rd guests, Christy and Chris, and headed over for a bite to eat, spontaneously selecting the Waters Edge Winery and Bistro, based on Google reviews and their menu of small plates, tapas and wine!  Three of us enjoyed wine flights, and we all enjoyed the food we selected.  The mid-afternoon time of day gave us the entire place to ourselves, and we laughed and smiled and enjoyed the joy and excitement that travel has on the soul.

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Once the kids settled in at the campground, we all agreed that in order to maximize our short time together, a drive into GNP was in order for the evening (this national park currently has ticketed entry, and without a ticket that day, we could only enter after 5 pm).  Because we had Steve’s rental vehicle, we made the venture all the way up the Going To The Sun Road (our truck is not permitted to go this far due to its size) to Logan’s Pass along the Continental Divide where we saw more rams, and down the other side, out of the park and all the way back around, late at night to our campsite, sleepy but satisfied with our day.  It was a beautiful evening drive on what many describe as the most beautiful road in the world.  What a way to end our visit with Steve!  He made his way back to South Carolina, and we look forward to our next visit with him and his family – currently scheduled for Thanksgiving in Myrtle Beach!

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The next day was all about romance and engagements rather than being tourists, and if you haven’t already done so, check out my post about how love took root in Glacier National Park for my step-daughter and her now-fiance’!

Now that the pressure was off all of us from the engagement, we did our best to relax and prepare for an evening boat ride on Lake McDonald.  Arriving a little early, we first peeked inside the historic and beautiful McDonald Lodge.  Built in 1913, and constructed of massive trees that were surely harvested from the area, the decor and structure of this lodge is quite impressive.  The area also includes cabins nearby, but the gem is the lodge with 82 rooms and a restaurant (closed due to Covid).  Because access in the park was much more limited at the beginning of the century, the beauty of the lodge faces the lake, because most guests arrived by boat in those early years.  But the entire property is still gorgeous, with overflowing window boxes and hanging baskets of flowers.

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We explored the lakeshore, shopped in the little gift shop, ordered some drinks at the take-out window, then boarded the historic vessel DeSmet, built in 1930.  We settled into some open air seats at the rear of the boat and relaxed as the sun began to set.  We learned about the stories that this largest lake in Glacier National Park has to tell and also enjoyed chatting with a family of newly FT RVers having an adventure in the park.  It was the perfect way to relax in the moment, and savor the special days the four of us had together.

Not to sit on our laurels, our next adventure began in the morning with a red bus tour to the Going To The Sun Road!  Our tour guide was phenomenal, with much knowledge of history and geology in the area.  Our bus was one of 33 in the fleet, and is considered the oldest touring fleet of vehicles in the world!  We had no idea the buses were old, much less historic and beautifully restored and upgraded over the years – they were exquisite.  The Going To The Sun road was just as amazing this time during the middle of the day as it had been a couple days earlier in the evening, but this time there was the added benefit of a guide that could answer all of our questions as well.  Our journey took a number of scenic stops along the way and ended at Logan’s Pass before turning around to see all the new views coming back down into the park again.  Any worries I had about “seeing the road twice” were quickly resolved.  

Will we look back at photos from 2020 and 2021 in 20 years and laugh at all of us with “mask-beards”? Mask-beards aside, these two kiddos and this red bus are all waaaaay cool!

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One of the coolest places we saw while in the area was not even in Glacier National Park at all!  For many months, Andy had been reading online about the famous and very popular huckleberry bear claw pastries that visitors drive hours to get in Polebridge, Montana.  Named so because of the bridge made of poles that used to be in the area, Polebridge features a mercantile, a saloon, cabins for rent and a LOT of wide open space.  It is 27 miles from West Glacier, on a largely dirt road and miles of mother nature’s best work only 17 miles from the Canadian border.

Chris, Christy, Andrew and I took the drive to Polebridge with only an expectation of bear claw pastries, and we ended up in a mecca of quirky, historic, and quite a busy shopping, eating, drinking and hiking destination!  It was incredible, and beautiful and a warm, sunny day.  We bought lunch at the Sasquatch Grill food truck that boasted poutine (a Canadian dish of gravy fries with cheese curds) alongside delicious curry spiced rice bowls that harkened from an entirely different palette and part of the world.

The Mercantile next door has been serving area residents and tourists alike for more than 100 years and sells much more than pastries.  The store was bustling and products ranged from cold beverages and baked goods, to clothing, postcards and camping supplies.  

For much of the summer, Andrew had also been following news reports of a wildfire that was getting close to Polebridge and our visit there was put at risk.  Thankfully for all, the fire was eventually contained and did no harm in Polebridge.  There was, however, a walking trail called the Transboundary Flathead River Interpretive Trail next to the property that meandered out into an area that had suffered wildfire damage years earlier.  We have been seeing the damage caused by wildfires all throughout our western travels this summer, but to walk among the damaged land and see it coming back to life was interesting.

Polebridge identifies itself as a place “where the west is still wild” and we now understand.  The businesses will close down in October and won’t begin opening again until April with snow still on the distant mountains, wildlife coming back to life and Montanoans ready to enjoy yet another brief summer in Polebridge.  

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These days in and around Glacier National Park wound up as the grand finale of our summer tour of the west.  It has been among some of the most incredible and special moments of our lives and the states of Colorado, Wyoming, Idaho and Montana are now solidly some of our favorites!  Shortly after our stay in this northwest corner of the state, we began our trip back east to take care of medical appointments, visits with our mothers and children and a bit of a more “regular life” for a while.  We leave reluctantly, but immensely grateful.  We have been blessed with safe travels and incredible experiences and will now be able to spend some time with our loved ones back east that we miss very much.  

If there are any suggestions we would give others that often tell us that they wish they could do what we are doing or declare how lucky we are, it would be this – expect the same for your life.  There are many adventures out there for all of us, in all places and at all price points.  Plan well to find out what your adventure might look like.  Become debt-free to make it possible.  Use the many changes in our world to find employment that will support your dreams.  Stick to a budget and save.  Start small, but start now, because you never know what time, travels and tribulations lie ahead for you.

Safe travels and enjoy your journey!

Thank you, Mother Nature for our most fabulous summer adventure!

“Everything is so big—the sky, the mountains, the wind-swept flatlands—it sinks into you, it shapes your body and your dreams.”

 Christopher Paolini

“Of all the memorable views, the best have been framed by Montana windows.”

William Hjortsberg

“I’m in love with Montana. For other states I have admiration, respect, recognition, even some affection. But with Montana, it is love. And it’s difficult to analyze love when you’re in it.”

John Steinbeck

“It seems to me Montana is a great splash of grandeur. The scale is huge but not overpowering. The land is rich with grass and color, and the mountains are the kind I would create if mountains were ever put on my agenda.”

John Steinbeck

“My favorite state has not yet been invented. It will be called Montana, and it will be perfect.”

Abraham Lincoln
Huckleberry makes Montana a very purple state, and we Ravens fans love it! This is Christy, (along with us), shopping in West Glacier Village.

What Does A Year Cost When Full-Time RVing? That Depends…

When FT RVing, some things cost more, and some cost less…one thing is for sure – it is different for EVERYONE!

In the years leading up to full-time RVing, and in the year since we began our travels, we have done all we can to learn from others.  It is a particularly well known fact that campers love to help other campers.  A generally friendly bunch, campers in today’s world are helpful in many ways other than saying hello to your campsite neighbor.  Now campers share with others via Facebook groups, Youtube, blogs, eBooks and eNewsletters as well. 

We have devoured all of these mediums over the last five years or so, and without a doubt, the most often asked questions center around “how much does it cost to live and travel in an RV”?   To that end, I thought that it was time to “pay it forward” and share a little bit of our experiences.  

We recently celebrated our 1st “Nomad-i-versary” on July 17th!  To celebrate our year on the road, I’ve put on my nerd hat (or perhaps my recently acquired cowgirl hat from Wyoming), run the numbers, and am ready to share a little bit of what it cost us to live a year as a nomad.  Note that this isn’t ALL of our budget.  I am only sharing the numbers for those budget categories that are generally affected by traveling full time.

One year of full-time RVing, and this little campground in South Carolina – Mile Creek County Park is still my favorite campsite of all time!

Here are the basics of our 1st year full-time RVing financials:

FOOD – $19,652

HEALTHCARE – $11,749

TRANSPORTATION – $14,596

HOUSING/UTILITIES – $23,525

One year of full-time RVing:  PRICELESS.

Food, healthcare, transportation and housing are the parts of our budget most affected by a full-time RVing lifestyle.

Let me break it down in each category:

FOOD

It should also be noted that it is a little more difficult to shop for food inexpensively when traveling.  You cannot always find the less expensive stores (I miss you Aldi!), and sometimes the food options are fewer, farther between and therefore more costly.  We have collected a lot of “store shopper cards” along the way, trying to at least gain the benefit of the weekly sales at the stores we shop, but it is difficult to save on the “buy two, get one free” sales when pantry space is so limited.  

If you look at the details of our food costs, we spent nearly $6,500 on restaurant and on-the-road snack foods, but we did so as a conscious decision, knowing our budget and wanting to experience great cuisine in every place we visited!  We have an unwritten rule that we will only eat at restaurants that are local (no national chains) and we have stuck to that pretty closely (with the exception of our Chick-fil-a habits, lol).

Eating out at local restaurants is a really fun part of our traveling ways!

Can you do food cheaper than us?  ABSOLUTELY!  Can you spend more than us as well?  YEP.  Decide what you can afford and follow that budget.  This expense category can be the same as you have in your sticks and bricks life, but with a little more effort to find the food sources that meet your financial needs.  If the grocery stores are more costly where you are traveling, then you may have to modify WHAT you are buying to make up the difference, but overall, you can make the budget category of FOOD meet your budgetary needs even when you transition to a lifestyle of full-time RVing.

HEALTHCARE

We have always believed that health insurance is a “MUST-DO” item in our budget.

This category is so specific to each household, that the numbers shown here are probably not valuable.  Instead, HOW we acquire healthcare is perhaps the more helpful information to share.  We have always lived by the belief that health insurance is a must-do item in our budget.  But as pre-Medicare aged adults, health insurance coverage can be one of the more difficult hurdles to a full-time RV budget.  

We made the decision early on that we were going to free up as much of our time for travel experiences as possible.  Full-time travel, for us, won’t be forever, but rather “for now”.  Therefore, my husband quit his full time job last June (he is in an industry that could allow him to work from home/the road, so it gives him employment options once we choose a new way of living).  In the last 22 years I was mostly a stay-at-home mom with part time employment, with the last kiddo leaving the house at the time we launched full-time RVing, so in a sense, part of my “job” went away automatically (it actually just changed, but that is perhaps a blog post for another day).  The other part of my job is running our short term vacation rental business.  Considered “passive income” it requires me to “work” a little nearly every day, but it is easily done from the road and it is work that I enjoy.

The plan had always been to quit working (for a while), sell our home and to use the proceeds and our savings to launch our nomadic ways.  So we knew that acquiring health insurance could get tricky.  Had my husband continued working, as many RVers can now do in more location-independent workplaces, we would have continued to have some of the same health insurance challenges that we face today.  His employer-sponsored monthly “family” coverage used to cost us about $1500 each month, and that provided us with an HMO that was heavily managed and had a provider network that was limited to Maryland, DC and Northern Virginia.

It was time for change, yet again.

Therefore, healthcare.gov became the most cost-effective way for us to acquire traditional health insurance while RVing full-time.  It still didn’t solve the geographic coverage limitations we faced, but it at least provides us coverage for medical needs that could be financially burdensome or worse yet, catastrophic.  Because the Healthcare Marketplace is state-based, we need to schedule annual check-ups with planned travel to Florida every year, and if we need some on-going medical care, we may have to return to Florida.  We occasionally just shop around for cost-effective medical care in whatever state we happen to be at the time and pay for care as we go.  We pray that no big emergencies happen, but if they must, we then pray that they happen while we are in Florida! 

For the last six months of 2020, our health insurance cost on the Marketplace (for the two of us and my 19 year old college-freshman daughter), was $8,150.  That cost bought us a Blue Cross PPO plan in the state of Florida (our domicile state) with a hefty $8,000 per person deductible ($16,400 family).  

Once we got to 2021, our health insurance costs for a ZERO deductible Blue Cross plan became $0.  This change was because once we started a new year, our projected earned income became zero.  Since we were living on our savings we had no “earned income”, the Healthcare Marketplace health insurance tax credits helped us significantly, allowing us to get a better insurance plan at no immediate cost to us (if our expected earned income works out differently by the time we file our taxes next year, we may have to pay back some or all of those tax credits).

The balance of our expenses in the HEALTHCARE category of our budget were out-of-pocket care such as dental (we did not purchase dental insurance), out of network services, or provider and prescription copays.  To cover these costs more comfortably, and to save on taxes, we funded a Health Savings Account (HSA) in the years leading up to full-time living.  We draw on that account to pay for our out-of-pocket health-related expenses.

If employer-sponsored or marketplace health insurance plans are not available to you or the right fit for your needs, and if you are healthy, you can explore an indemnity health insurance plan.  They are helpful for travelers because you can seek healthcare in most locations and have more ability to shop around for the most affordable services.  There are also non-insurance healthcare cost-sharing programs that many healthy RVers participate in.  These can be more affordable and still provide some good coverage.  No matter what you choose, choose carefully and read the details, but choose SOMETHING.  Determine if you want lower deductibles or higher maximum payout limits.  Determine which coverage gives you the right financial and health peace of mind.  

TRANSPORTATION

A house on wheels costs a pretty penny to keep on the road.

Transportation costs are greatly impacted by the style of camping you may choose.  We live in a 36’ fifth wheel.  Therefore we have a hefty truck as well.  In order to go full-time in our RV, we upgraded our truck (a Ford F350 DRW diesel) and sold my car.  

The cost breakdown for our first year is as follows:

  • Insurance – $3,631
  • Fuel – $5,631
  • Parking – $40
  • Service, Parts and Misc – $4,978
  • Tolls – $315

Insurance – We have different insurance companies/policies for our RV and truck.  That is a disadvantage that we have not yet found a solution to.  We also are domiciled in Florida where insurance rates went up from our home state of Maryland (that was a surprise to us), so that is also a disadvantage.  Our truck is a 2017 and our RV is a 2018.  Shop carefully and frequently, and hopefully you can save a bit over our costs.

Fuel – Diesel fuel has been inexpensive but has been rising.  Stay longer in each location, slowing your speed and your travel and you can save in this category.  There are also a few discount fuel programs and apps out there to help you save.  We have signed up for a few but just haven’t used them yet, so there is room for improvement here.  In one year, our RV traveled about 7,500 miles, but I unfortunately didn’t track the additional mileage with just the truck, sightseeing, running around town on errands, etc.  Suffice it to say, you can make this cost drop significantly if you travel less.

Parking – This cost might be a little higher than represented in our Quicken accounting system, as I probably missed a lot of quarters being dropped into meters, but this cost really depends on how often you visit cities.

Service, Parts and Misc – What can I say, diesel trucks are not cheap to maintain.  We did not have any real repairs in the last year.  We did buy some new tires (both in the RV and the truck), so those are reflected in these numbers, but really, oil changes, brakes and maintenance can be costly, so plan on a realistic number for this category.

Tolls – Sometimes you have to pay a slight premium for this category.  We have the east coast EZ-pass, but it doesn’t work in many parts of the country.  We investigated getting some additional passes in some states to save on tolls, but it really only made sense for us in one area – Florida, where we spend parts of our winters and medical downtime.

HOUSING/UTILITIES

This budgetary category is perhaps the “meat and potatoes” of what folks want to know about when contemplating a life on the road.  This category, like food, can be as varied as the types of RVers out there!  But here is our story.

Before we became FT RVers it was part of our plan to purchase certain memberships that would save us money on camping fees.  After much research, we purchased an Thousand Trails Elite Connections membership, a Harvest Hosts Membership, joined the Good Sam Club, Passport America and along the way, have purchased a few state and national park passes.  All of these memberships can save us on campsites and admissions.  

What we have chosen may not fit the type of travel you will choose, but we have found that stays of two to four weeks is our camping “sweet spot”.  In the summer, when we tend to do more long-distance travelling and sightseeing, our stays are often shorter and more expensive.  In our first year, we found that we waited too late to make reservations for our summer travel, and we ended up paying a premium at KOAs and “resort” campgrounds because most of the state and national parks were full.  Those campsites range from $65 – $109 per night.  Perhaps next year we will do better and save a little more.

Therefore, our campsite fees for one year totaled $13,355.  Our membership costs and dues totaled $1,624.  (Our Thousand Trails initial membership cost us $8,146 but is not represented in these costs, as it was purchased earlier in the year).

We stayed 193 days in Thousand Trails campgrounds from Pennsylvania to Florida and the most common campgrounds we visited retail for about $75 per night.  Therefore, our membership provided us with campsites valued at about $14,475!  

We enjoyed most of our Thousand Trails stays – many have great amenities. This one in Florida sits on a golf course.

Our Harvest Host membership cost us $99 for the first year.  We stayed at five Harvest Hosts locations, each for a night, but it is important to note that while we can boondock for free with Harvest Hosts, this membership wasn’t purchased to necessarily save money.  We wanted the membership for the experiences!  As members, in exchange for a free night of camping, we are asked to support the member business in some way.  If we are at a distillery or winery, we have a great time tasting and then purchasing some bottles.  At a golf course, we go to the clubhouse for dinner.  If we ever visit a member museum or farm market, we will purchase a ticket or some roadside tomatoes!  In the end, we absolutely spent more money at each Harvest Host location than we would likely have paid for a campsite for the night, but we have found great value in the people we have met along the way.

Harvest Hosts saves us in campsite fees….so we can spend more in great experiences! This is Weldon Mills Distillery in Weldon, NC.

Our Good Sam membership has provided some discounts along the way, but we will have to evaluate if it is worthwhile, as we try to avoid shopping at Camping World (where we also get discounts with our membership).  We have not used our Passport America membership yet…we just have not found that the discount was applicable to the places or dates we were traveling so far.

About halfway through the year we even purchased a KOA membership.  This program gives us discounted stays at KOA Kampgrounds – not our favorite way to camp, but we found that with campsites filling up so much, we have ended up at KOA Kampgrounds at least a half dozen times, so this membership was worthwhile for us this past year.

To round out our memberships, we have a National Parks Pass ($80 per year) and a Montana State Parks Pass.  We are camping for one weeks in a Mpntana state park campground – the only reservation we were able to get all summer in our western USA trip, but with even one stay, the state park membership paid for itself.  In Florida, the discount vs the cost of the membership never would pay off for us (Florida state parks are notoriously difficult to get reservations), so we did not purchase that pass.

The rest of this HOUSING/UTILITIES budgetary category is filled up with a lot of smaller expenses as follows:

  • RV Maintenance – $631
  • Propane – $83
  • DirecTV – $1,153
  • Laundry – $83
  • Cell Phones and Data – $3,372
  • RV Improvements – $2,704
  • Firewood – $100
  • Mail Processing – $420

RV Maintenance  – Included brackets, hoses, caulk, tape, lock pins, bulbs, fork oil, fridge fan, RV battery.  It is difficult to predict what you must spend in this category, but make sure you know that this is always an expense you will have.

Propane – We had limited use of propane and instead used our electric fireplace as a free heat source, and a countertop induction cooktop for some of our cooking.  We also would expect this cost to increase if we travel to cooler parts of the US during non-summer seasons.

DIRECTV – This includes monthly costs and start-up equipment costs.  You could very easily reduce or eliminate this category if you sourced your television viewing from over-the-air antenna, campsite cable channels, streaming services, or simply by sitting outside by the campfire more often.

Laundry – We chose to purchase and install a Splendide washer/dryer combo ventless unit, but did use laundromats for the first couple of months and periodically to clean larger items like blankets, seat covers and dog beds.  When we began camping, I was not intending to buy a washer/dryer, but the global pandemic caused me to rethink the decision.  Looking back, this was one of the best choices we have made to improve our daily living.

Cell Phones and Data – We pay for cell service for four phones total and needed to purchase two replacement cell phones for ourselves in the last year.  Additionally, we have made some data upgrades to have enough internet data each month.  We have 15 GB of mobile hotspot data on both/each of our phones, plus another 15 GB on a mobile hotspot.  There is room for improvement in this category, and a periodic reevaluation of cell service plans is always a good idea.

RV Improvements – These included a washer/dryer purchase and installation, a WeBoost Cell Booster, a truck tool box, and curtain rods and curtains throughout the rig.

Firewood – We love a campfire, and we did purchase a fabulous Solo Stove last fall.  But we have found that there are many fire restrictions in place in the areas we have traveled, and sometimes, firewood is just darn tough to find (we had some success with Facebook Marketplace when in Florida last winter).

Mail Processing – We declared our domicile in Florida, so we chose a company called St. Brendan’s Isle in Green Cove Springs to handle our mail.  They have been fabulous.  These costs represent the monthly fee for their mail scanning service, plus the cost of postage for any mail that must be forwarded to our location.  If you are in the early stages of deciding and declaring your domicile state, be sure to contact a few of these companies to help you navigate the sometimes complicated steps.

So where else did all our $$$ go?

SO WHAT IS NOT INCLUDED?

The numbers shown here are not the “full freight” for our life on the road.  There are items not shown here that have little to do with our lifestyle but are instead just the cost of living.  Those include:

Clothing – What can I say?  You need VERY FEW CLOTHES when FT RVing.  We generally wear our favorite five outfits and the rest of the closet inventory remains unused.  If we ever travel to cooler temps, we will make use of perhaps another third of our wardrobe, but much of our clothing lies in wait for use!  The clothing we have purchased in the last year is part “fun stuff” (that overpriced t-shirt from Red Rocks that I love) or replacement (“ya gotta replace those worn out shorts and t-shirts, honey”).  This category could be less costly if we tried harder, but we had fun buying clothes that represented memories of our travels and high quality clothes that would stand the test of mountain hikes.  Make this category what you want when you move to FT RVing but chances are, you could spend less on clothing than in your pre-traveling life.

Entertainment – I throw anything that we enjoy for fun into this category.  Cross-stitch supplies, tickets to museums and parks, bison ranch train tickets, Cheyenne trolley tour, movie rentals and purchases, puzzles, park passes, etc.  If it is fun stuff and not “must have”, it generally falls under “entertainment”.  So whether you are traveling or not, you have complete control over this category.  It can be a little or a lot, depending on the choices you make.

Misc – If it doesn’t fall anywhere else, it goes here.  Fly swatter, toaster, measuring cup, backpacks, mattress, linens, desk, air purifier, flagpole and flags, hangers, etc.  Many of these things are not specific to RVing, but many of the items we purchased BECAUSE we were now in a new RV home.  Either way, this category is not greatly affected by a lifestyle change to full-time RVing.

Personal Care – This is basically haircuts.  I don’t even color my hair any more (stopped that as the pandemic hit, about six months before we launched FT RVing, which had been my original planned date to simplify my haircare).  This category is whatever you make it, and travel doesn’t necessarily affect it.

Pets – This expense, like many, is not affected by FT RVing.  This includes vet appointments, medicines, dog shampoo and training collars.  We have two dogs and a cat that travel with us (and yes, they LOVE RVing!).  So if you spend money on this when you live in your sticks and bricks, those expenses will continue in generally the same pattern once you move into your RV.

We don’t come cheaply, but we do come cutely!

The balance of where our money goes – Gifts, Business Expenses, Property Taxes (for rentals and land), Charitable Donations, Support for a Dependent Child, and Entertaining Guests.


For certain, the total cost of full-time RVing can vary greatly, just like the cost of living a stationary “sticks and bricks” lifestyle varies greatly.  If you do a good job budgeting and living below your means now, you will likely have the same success once you start full-time RVing.  However, if your personal finances are a struggle before travel, those difficulties will likely continue with a more nomadic lifestyle.

The reason for this observation is because WHERE we live (in a house or an RV) does not matter nearly as much as HOW we live.  Create a monthly zero-based budget, live below your means, become or remain debt-free, save for your future and stick to it.  As always, your personal choices will be the greatest factor to your long term success.

Safe travels and save and spend wisely! 

We don’t need the big house – instead, we seek big adventures! We love spending our TIME together, TRAVELing the world, and holding each other through life’s TRIBULATIONS! (Mansion in the background courtesy of Trail End State Historic Site in Billings, Montana.)

Easy Questions With Complicated Answers

"Where do you live?" - Answers from the road we travel.

3 By wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established; 4 through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures.

Proverbs 24:3-4
“Where do you live?”

Sometimes it feels like we are giving a loaded answer to what is a fairly innocuous question.  “Where are you from” or “Where do you live?”.  We answer as succinctly and clearly as possible.  “We are full time RVers.  We live and travel in our RV year-round.” Then we pause for the reaction.  We have gotten it all in response.  Stranger, acquaintance, friend or family, it is sometimes difficult to know what reaction we will receive.  It seems, however, that the reactions seem to fall into one of three different categories.

Perhaps the most surprising (and thankfully, the least common) reaction is what I call the “Trailer Trash Look”.  They immediately look down upon us and the way we are choosing to live.  They give us a confused stare.  These are the folks that might not understand or have any experience with camping.  They might not understand the amazing diversity of campers and camping styles that are found in this country.  They might think that campgrounds are like run-down mobile home parks (sometimes they are).  They might have prejudged (and misjudged) people that live in trailers or motorhomes as desperate, nearly homeless folks that are under/unemployed and not hardworking.  They might be very “inside the box” thinkers.  They might just be jerks judging our lifestyle. 

How we choose to live might not be what they imagine it to be.

They are easy to handle.  Simply smile, end the conversation quickly and move on.  No amount of explanation or education is likely to change their opinion, and this type of person doesn’t generally want to hear it anyway. 

The second type of reaction we get is the one I struggle with the most.  I call it the “Green Is Not Your Color Look”.  Envy shows clearly when folks’ initial response is said in a generally pleasant but slightly sarcastic tone.  “I wish I could do that” or “Must be nice” or even “Well, aren’t you lucky?”.  Sheesh.  This lifestyle is usually a choice.  It is the culmination of a lifetime of hard work and sacrifice in my choices.  It is not simply the result of waking up rich one day. We chose this lifestyle because of its richness in experiences.  My husband and I planned for this opportunity.  We made financial decisions to be able to prepare for this lifestyle.  We live responsibly and aware of our ongoing financial choices, following a monthly budget and sticking to it.  

Our lives are about choices, and occasionally about how we react to our adversities.

I am never quite sure how to respond to people who make these comments, but for some reason I feel compelled to try.  I say “Well sure, you can choose to do this lifestyle too!  People of all walks of life have made it their choice”; or “It is indeed nice, thank you.  I’ve been a saver my entire life, so this is the time when we can enjoy those savings”; or “Well, not lucky really, but blessed.  This is something we have worked hard for, so we are really blessed to have the opportunity for these experiences.”  No matter how we have responded, it seems that our message never quite connects with the commenter.  They never quite hear that their limitations are usually of their own making.  All of our lives are mostly about our choices, and occasionally about how we react to our adversities.

By and large, however, we get great support and enthusiasm.  The most common response is true and genuine happiness and understanding for our choices.  “That is amazing.”, “What an adventure.”, or “I’ve always wanted to do that!”.  This response is sometimes followed by questions about our favorite places or future destinations.  It is a pleasure to share with these folks. We connect with them and learn about their lives as well.  Often they have had an equally interesting and different life that they are living, and we love to learn about them.  We often connect on a very human level, appreciating our differences and enjoying the time learning about our amazingly diverse world.

By and large, we receive great support and enthusiasm about our nomadic lifestyle.

Regardless of people’s reaction to our life in a 350 square foot trailer and a truck, people usually want to know what it is like for us.  They want to understand the day-to-day – the good, the bad and the ugly of it all.  What is hard for us?  Why are we doing this at all?

People can understand and usually even guess the harder parts.  These are the things that stop many others from living this lifestyle for very long, or from trying it at all.  You are separated from your friends and loved ones by many miles and often many months.  You must eliminate most of your personal items, by either selling them, giving them away or storing them out of reach (often at a great cost).  You must live a life of greater solitude (if you are single) or of less alone time (if you are part of a couple), or of very limited personal space (if you are part of an RVing family).  These can be the tougher parts of FT RVing.

Learning to live in a smaller space requires a coziness that can be fun, but that also leaves you searching for your own personal space. Here, the “dining table” becomes an office and craft room.
The galley kitchen is fully functional, but a complete “open concept” with the “living room” and “dining room”.
The sofa in the “living room” gives a small bit of “personal space” to our doggos on a daily basis.

Andrew and I have found ways to work through these challenges.  We recognize that every so often, we will be returning to our “hometown base” of Maryland and Pennsylvania to see our families – including our mothers, siblings and children.  We need that time and they need that time.  Life goes on and there will always be graduations, illnesses, marriages, births and even deaths to draw us together.  We just work these things into our travels – expected or unplanned, we know they will happen. 

We also always leave an open-ended invitation to our friends and loved ones to visit with us.  When passing through a certain state, we have met with new and old friends along the way.  When visiting a fabulous place, our kids and sometimes our close friends will fly in for a visit/vacation.  Because of our nomadic ways, these visits must be planned out, but it really is not much different than millions of families around the globe that live far apart from their loved ones for a lifetime.

We love when our loved ones visit us! Here, two of Andrew’s kids stopped by Colorado for a visit, including a Colorado Rockies game!
My baby, Ella, cooks up some Thanksgiving dinner with us on Tybee Island, Georgia.

Shedding our home was a difficult process that was also very easy in the end.  Selling a home that you love or leaving a town that you feel a part of can be a challenge.  Ultimately, we have found that the simplicity of life is a positive outcome to our loss of possessions.  Having no yard work, property taxes, utility bills and large capital and maintenance projects frees up our finances to create experiences and feel little stress when the kitchen sink springs a leak (yes, those things still happen in a tiny home on wheels).

It took many months of Facebook Marketplace sales, yard sales and donation trips to our local non-profit thrift store to shed us of nearly all our personal belongings.

WHY?  So why do we do this full-time RVing thing?  Why do we choose to live apart from loved ones and friends?  Why do we choose to shed our treasured belongings and live in such a small space?  The reasons are many:

Meeting diverse people:  The gift of camping in this lifestyle we choose is that we DO meet many kinds of people.  They are varied and different from us in many ways.  If we still lived in our little neighborhood where our “sticks and bricks” home was located, we would meet mostly people that were similar to us demographically.  But because we meet new neighbors weekly, we meet people that come from much more varied walks of life.  Campers, we have found, come from very different geographic, familial, financial, political, ethnic, racial and career backgrounds.  

This Native American display at the Denver Museum of Nature and Science was a great way to show the diversity of people and lives that we have met while traveling the country.

In South Carolina, we met a traveling couple and their three furry family members, complete with a motorcycle sidecar that allowed the entire family to camp and motorbike around the country.  Both Mike and Jean were retired from really interesting careers in horse racing, with Mike being part of a world class, hall of fame horse training family and Jean being a thoroughbred rider.  He shared interesting stories of growing up while rubbing elbows with Hollywood stars like singer Burt Bacharach, actress Angie Dickinson and many others, with dinner parties, hosted by his mother, being the norm for their family.

In Florida, we met Doris, a single 89 year old full-time RVer who had recently downsized to a 25 foot class C camper.  She retired from her traveling jewelry sales career (also in an RV) and declined the opportunity to move in with her daughter.  Instead, she spends her free time as a daytrader and self-described youtube fanatic, following other full-time RVers she meets along the way.

We have met camping families that homeschool their children with experiences and discipline.  We have met a lesbian couple that travel and blog their way through their adventures and chronic illness, entertaining and helping others along the way.  We have met those that are our political polar opposites, and yet, we enjoyed a campfire together.  We enjoyed meeting the retired couple in their 70s that were RVing for the first time, making a cross-country trek in their Class B camper to visit their daughter in Washington state.

This interesting neighbor, whom I met Thanksgiving weekend, purchsed this military surplus equipment at auction and converted it into a unique way of camping.

The ways all these “neighbors” we meet travel and live are all very different – seasonal snowbirds, workampers, weekend warriors, location independent full-time employees, traditional 65+ retirees, young risk-takers that fund their travels with an entrepreneurial online presence and yes, even those that are struggling financially and hanging on to whatever stability they can find while living in an RV in a stationary location. We have enjoyed meeting them all. 

This globe-trotting traveler was going to circumvent the WORLD in his Unimog before Covid converted his trip to an exploration of the USA.

Embracing a more minimalist life:  This benefit of FT RVing wasn’t one of our initial goals, but it has been an unexpected enjoyable outcome.  We have grown to enjoy a smaller, more casual wardrobe (we usually wear the same five outfits weekly).  We cook simple, (generally) healthy meals a few times a week instead of daily, and we enjoy the extra time to slow down our pace.  Most urges to acquire material things are shifted to our loved ones – we love sending care packages of objects found in our travels to those we miss back east.  We have left the race to build a career, to have a beautiful home, to drive a nice car.  Instead, we have less “stuff” – part time work, just enough to support our lifestyle, a tiny home on wheels with no mortgage payment and one vehicle that is our shared mode of transportation.  In exchange, we have more experiences that we value far more than the items we have removed from our lives.

We are more glampers than these minimalist retro campers that we saw in the Casey KOA (Illinois). but no matter how small or big your rig, minimalism is a necessity of life. When something new comes into the rig, something else must leave.

Having incredible life experiences – By and large, THIS is what most people are excited about, and I really must agree.  The romance of travel and the beauty of our country is what we were drawn to and what many others we meet think about when we first tell them where we live.  The sunsets are indeed a little different in every place we settle for a while.  The animals are diverse and interesting – from the swamps to the sandy beaches to the mountains.  The really cool things we try are so numerous we will never be able to get through the entire list.  But even the simple everyday events of exploring a new thrift shop, shopping at a newly discovered farm market, or chatting with a shopkeeper in a newly discovered little downtown – even in these simple life moments we make discoveries and are amazed by the world around us.

The sunrises and sunsets are indeed a little different in every place we settle for a while. This beautiful sunrise in Myrtle Beach, SC, like all of them, is courtesy of our good and gracious God.
The animals are diverse and interesting – these large turtles lived among us in our central Florida campground.
The Sand Hill Cranes mate for life, dance for joy, and are among the most interesting we lived among while wintering in Florida.

After falling in love and then living three decades apart, and then while we each went through some of the most difficult years of our lives separately, we focused on our children, and simply “getting through” the tough years.  When we rekindled our lost relationship, we were finally able to look ahead to the day when life could again be beautiful and full of love.  As our children became young adults, our obligations and roles changed, and we were able to instead focus on our life together as a couple.  Full-time RVing became a way to quickly reinvent our lives, to step away from past pain, and see what life had in store for us in this next phase of life – finally celebrating “our time”.

Andrew’s surprise 50th birthday party (four years ago) – about the time that we started to actively plan for “our time”, to begin in July 2020.

We are Andrew and Tina, husband and wife FT RVers, living in our 36 foot fifth wheel trailer, traveling the country with our two dogs and a cat, missing our loved ones, and living a very blessed life.

Home Sweet Home – at a Harvest Hosts stop near Leavenworth, KS

1 For we know that if the earthly tent we live in is destroyed, we have a building from God, an eternal house in heaven, not built by human hands. 

2 Corinthians 5:1

How Covid and FT RVing Showed Us New Ways To Share The Love

In my family of origin, there were a lot of little details that were “traditions” we cherished during holidays throughout the year.  At Easter, we Holmstrom’s took the obligatory photos dressed in our Sunday finest and with our baskets at our feet.  At Thanksgiving, the dressing and sauerkraut played just as important a role as the turkey.  Finally, Christmas morning gift opening always began with all four of us kids piled in our parent’s king-sized bed, digging through the stockings that Santa left before we explored what he left under the tree.  Much of the rest – the bigger components that fill in a holiday experience, would be altered a bit each year to meet changing family member’s needs – varying locations, attendees and menus.  We treasured it all, but we weren’t very prone to consistency.

My brother, Steve and me, visiting Granny and Pop-pop (maternal grandparents) in Baltimore, MD in 1970.
Granny (Albertina Heming) and my mom (Diane) in 1968. That mid-century modern silver tree is a holiday detail that has survived and was used for many years through my own parent’s retirement.

My husband’s experience was a bit different.  Many aspects of the holidays were a re-creation of the year prior – decorations, menu, guests and celebratory details were a great annual tradition.  Change was eschewed, conceding to it only when absolutely necessary.  The Schmidt family traditions run deep and long and are equally treasured.

Every big holiday in the Schmidt family included a visit to Grammy’s house (and many times for my family as well, but that is a blog post for another day). Here is Andrew at Grammy’s house for Christmas in 1967.
When Andrew and his brother started their own families, the tradition continued. Here is Abby (Andrew’s youngest), Grammy (his paternal grandmother), his neice Elia, and MomMom (his maternal grandmother), all dressed up for a Christmas visit.

As adults, we each continued our “holiday styles” in a similar manner, with my holidays moving with the ebb and flow of family member geography, the growing up of me and my three siblings, the loss of grandparents, the start of marriages and the birth of grandchildren.  Andrew’s experience was a bit more steadfast and certain.  Despite many of the same family changes over time, his family endeavored each year to keep every holiday the same at its’ core.  Each style seemed to work for each of us….and then we got married!  Cue the David Bowie music…”Cha-cha-cha-changes!”

When we married in 2015, holidays became a new conglomeration of step-siblings, new step-cousins, and a mix of guests that varied with each holiday and each year. With my family moving form PA to MD, and the sort-of blending of two households, the holiday table looked a little different each year. This photo shows the “kid table” at Thanksgiving, circa 2017.
We always tried to lasso a few of our kiddos each year to celebrate in different ways – this was the day in 2019 we got a small group of us together to pick our Christmas tree – with Ben (Andrew’s son), and Chris (Christy’s best guy).

So when we declared our full-time RVing plans and as Coronavirus descended upon our world, it quickly became apparent that our big holidays were going to be much different for a while.  And so far, different they have been!  Initially, I had one goal in mind – to make sure our kids all had a place to spend and enjoy each holiday no matter where we were in our RV. 

We also intended to find enticing travel locations that might create a holiday option for any of our six children to visit if they wanted.  Even though all our kids are now young adults, it was important to me that each of our kids had some holiday options.  Despite all the intentions and planning, we realized much of it was beyond our control.

The inability to travel during a pandemic created a quiet heartache as treasured holiday time with our loved ones was relegated to texts, phone, and video calls.  I have learned that Covid had a far greater impact on holidays than full-time RVing ever would.  I expect to miss seeing most of my loved ones when I travel.  But there is an added level of sadness when I know my stationary-living loved ones also cannot see and do most of the things they would like to do to celebrate.

These are the types of holidays that everyone around the world misses – a gathering of generations and households. This was Thanksgiving 2016, the last that we enjoyed celebrating with all of our parents. Fathers and fathers-in-law have since passed, placing another change upon us that we wish we didn’t have to face.

So as we wrap up a year of Covid holidays and six months of living on the road, I am grateful for whatever time I can get with my loved ones.  Brief visits with Ella, my college-student-youngest did happen – masks on and hugs withheld, before she had to return to her new “school home” in Gainesville, FL to work her part-time job at Walmart.  It has become clear that holiday familiarity is suspended for a while as everyone’s adult responsibilities, Coronavirus, and our geographic distance take their toll on our family, like so many others.

It was our thought that our other children and parents, all currently based out of Maryland and Pennsylvania, would have family members nearby to give them a “holiday home”.  Unfortunately, with Covid, that couldn’t always happen.  My two older kids both work every day in high-Covid-risk food service environments, so Covid really prevented them from being able to do much holiday visiting at all, in an effort to keep other more Covid-vulnerable relatives safe.  Instead, my oldest, Adalie, delivered Thanksgiving dinner from her place of employment to her brother, Lorne, since they both worked through the extended Thanksgiving weekend.  Lorne made a pumpkin pie and visited a local friend’s family.  They had recently lost their son/brother and it was important to him to help fill their holiday with some happiness.  

Andrew’s children each varied their own plans slightly, knowing that we could not all be together this year.  Christy was moving into a new apartment and kept busy with her boyfriend and his family.  Ben and Abby, still living at their mother’s home, had a place for a more traditional, albeit, smaller Thanksgiving.  

Our mothers each had perhaps the most challenging Thanksgiving celebrations of all of us.  My mom spent her first Thanksgiving as a widow, having just moved out of her home of 55 years – and into her own adorable in-law suite in my sister and brother-in-law’s home.  My mother-in-law spent her first Thanksgiving ever without anyone else at the table.  Our moms enjoyed meals provided by our siblings, but the holiday differences most certainly were the dominant theme.  We all did our best exchanging calls, texts and special flower deliveries, but watching all these changes unfold was certainly the most difficult part of the holiday to navigate.

Easter 2020 was a Covid-bust – with a full lockdown and stay-at-home order in MD, so we were bound and determined to make Thanksgiving on the road special in whatever way we could. Here, Andrew and I walk the beach with Ella on Thanksgiving Day in Tybee Island, GA.

Our Thanksgiving had some really nice moments despite all the limitations.  Andrew and Ella and I enjoyed a pot-luck meal hosted by the campground where we were staying, so I was able to cook our favorite dishes, without having the full load of a turkey and a dozen side dishes.  We ate at a picnic table at our campsite, with a tablescape of seashells, pine cones and mini pumpkins.  Instead of hosting 15 – 20 guests, our family-of-three walked off our meal on the beach of Tybee Island, GA on a warm afternoon, exchanging “Happy Thanksgiving” greetings with strangers instead of our parents and most of our children, all of whom we missed dearly.

A Thanksgiving 2020 freast for three- safely outdoors, with our feet in the sand, at Rivers End Campground, Tybee Island, GA
Where the Savannah River meets the Atlantic Ocean at sunset. Sometimes different can be great, and at the same time, you miss your people even more.

Christmas was a repeat of a similar scenario.  We met Ella at a campground on the gulf panhandle in Carrabelle Beach, FL for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.  It was a treat that included long walks on the pure white sand, collecting seashells and walking the dogs.  I made many of Ella’s favorite meals and put all my “Mom efforts” into her, unable to host or dote on any other kids or parents.  Facetime and Zoom meetings replaced a trip to someone’s house for a day-long visit.  Gifts were mailed, with a hope, but little expectation that the USPS was going to deliver in time. It was quiet.  It was relaxing.  It was still lovely.  But It was very, very different.

Christmas tree hunting was a trip to Goodwill, and decorating took only about an hour in our tiny RV home. But something about the twinkling lights helped give us the warmth of Christmas even when we missed nearly all of our loved ones.
Even a visit by one is better than a visit by none (she still needs to practice her mask-wearing as part of her adulting lessons). What we lacked in wrapping paper for gifts (as shown in photo), we made up for with shipping packages of love to those we missed.
I filled my 2020 “Mom-tank” by cooking special food for Ella and Andrew, and visiting with all of our kids on Facetime or Zoom on Christmas (this was a breakfast casserole).

By the time our second Covid-impacted Easter rolls around and we wrap up a year of traveling-holidays, I am not sure that much will be “back to normal”.  We hope the Covid vaccine will be widely available by then so that flights can be booked and larger gatherings of loved ones from different households are once again safe.  But if it isn’t, I know it will still be okay, despite the differences.  The holidays have to change every year, but the core of every holiday will always be the same.  These important days of the year are about sharing love, and we will all find new and different ways to share that love with those we love and miss.

Safe travels – and happy holidays all year-round, wherever you are planted!

The gallery of photos shared below is a walk down memory lane from the 1950s thru the present, showing how our families and our family traditions have evolved over the years. It is a digital family photo album of resilience and love.

This is actually a socially distant “bon voyage” crab feast we hosted in summer, 2020; I included it here because we were actually having an Easter Egg toss that had been Covid-cancelled in the spring! It was a day that marked the beginning of life on the road, as well as the continued crossover of generations of the Schmidt and Heming familes that began in the 1950s and continues four generations later