How Two Newbie FT RVers Became Tourists In A Pandemic

Being tourists during a Pandemic…

When you launch full-time RV life in the middle of a pandemic, it ends up looking a little different from how you imagined it.  Sure, many outdoor adventures can generally still happen, but you have to jockey for position on the hiking trail and keep your mask at the ready as you encounter fellow travelers.  You pack a lot of meals instead of exploring small-town restaurants along the way, and you jump for joy when one of those little foodie spots touts touchless take-out so that you might enjoy the meal in your vehicle, even though you have to miss out on the atmosphere, people and beauty of the area you are visiting.  Yes, Covid RV life is a little different.

So it wasn’t a big surprise when our first destination, in Waldo, Florida, was really a “stay-at-RV-home” kinda time.  We were there for a month to take care of the last of our domicile to-do items (get Florida license plates on our truck), move our last baby chick out of our nest and into her own (she is attending college in Gainesville), and generally catch up on RV maintenance while trying to stay cool in the oppressive humidity and heat of Florida in August.  We rested and recovered from the prior months of chaos  (prepping the house for sale, getting rid of 90 percent of our belongings, organizing financially while quitting jobs and saying goodbye to family members) so we knew this would not be a “touristy” time for us.  

We opted out of the giant Waldo Flea Market that was across the street from our campground – it would have been great fun if we didn’t see a need to avoid crowds.  A visit to my daughter’s college campus was relegated to a drive-thru version, and we weren’t able to stop at the campus bookstore to buy the obligatory college t-shirt, as it was still operating under curbside pickup service.  We couldn’t even go to the Santa Fe Teaching Zoo for a visit, as it was closed to the public during the pandemic.  Outdoor fun was on hiatus for us, because frankly, it was just too dang hot to see the University of Florida Bat Houses and the Kanapaha Botanical Gardens.  With years of education ahead of her in Gainesville, we will happily visit on future trips to see our daughter.

We had to pass on the Waldo Flea Market on this trip to central Florida

It was in an unexpected place that we finally got to dip our toes into the tourist waters.  We moved on from Waldo and made reservations for a quiet little campground near Wytheville, Virginia (pronounced “with-ville”) for four nights around Labor Day weekend, located in the rural, southwestern tip of the state, and it was just what we needed and wanted.  The first morning, we were met with the first of falling leaves and a crispness in the air that were familiar signs of the fall season.  Ahhhhhh!  Let the tourists begin!  

First stop – Wytheville’s Smallest Church!  What a perfect stop on our first day of exploring North America as FT RVers!  The church is just off Exit 73 of I-81 but also near I-77 and Route 11 in Wytheville, Virgina.  Tucked between a small country road and corn fields, the highway traffic and billboards were close by but quickly forgotten as we pulled into the tiny parking lot, sufficient for perhaps three cars. 

Surrounded by billboards, corn fields and beautiful gardens, Wythville’s Smallest Church was worth the stop!

There are beautiful and well maintained gardens with flowers and small statues, a miniature bell tower, and of course, the tiny little chapel.  The creators that were inspired to faithfully build this special place in 2010 thought of everything, even installing a rainwater collection system at the back of the church to make sure there is water onsite for the pretty flowers.

We imagined that the cute bell tower, with a border of flowers, would sound lovely at a couple’s marriage vows renewal or wedding – something that is offered at Wythville’s Smallest Church.

The good feelings we felt upon arrival grew even more the moment we walked through the doors.  The details are fantastic – beautiful wood interior walls and peaked roof, ceiling fans to keep cool, three tiny pews, a petite pulpit, and a prayer book full of special intentions left by prior visitors.  We added our own prayer – and sat for a short while just to feel the Holy Spirit come over us.  It was a magical place to discover.  Here is a little website with some information about Wytheville’s Smallest Church – http://www.wythesmallchurch.com/, a worthy stop if you happen to be headed through the area, even if just for a break from the monotony of a long drive.

The chapel has baptismal waters symbolism both inside and outside.
Prayers, left by visitors, adorn the board at the back of the chapel, and in a book of intentions at the pulpit.

After our visit, I was inspired to see if tiny churches might be “a thing”, much like tiny houses.  I found this blog post that has now created a whole new special bucket list of tiny churches around the country that I hope we can visit along the way!  

https://www.roadsideamerica.com/story/36537

From the website for Whytheville's Smallest Church ~

A Prayer Chapel in Wytheville VA dedicated to the Lord Jesus Christ.

If you find yourself tired or confused, fleeing or seeking,this place is for you.

Take a moment out of the everyday race and enjoy some time with the One that made you...HE is already here, waiting for you!
Be sure to take a few moments to stroll through the pretty gardens – the caretakers of the property clearly give a lot of loving care to be a place in honor of the Lord.

The next day of our tourist weekend, we decided to take advantage of the beautiful early fall weather and discovered the Big Walker lookout National Scenic Byway.  The drive is outlined in several places online, but we liked this website for a mile-by-mile description.  http://www.scenicbeauty-va.com/  We stopped along the route at the Jefferson National Forest at the Stoney Fork Campground.  There was guest day-parking so that we could hike the marked trails with our two doggos and take a stroll through the campground as well.  There is a creek that meanders all throughout the park, creating pretty photo ops, fishing spots and fresh, Covid-free air!

This National Forest Campground is in a lovely location, with a creek wandering through the entire property. It was enjoyed by campers of all sizes – and lots of folks enjoying the natural outdoors.
There were trails for miles, but even a walk through the campground was a nice way to spend some time with the dogs and each other.

The byway weaves and turns, and climbs to an altitude of 3405 feet.  It would be a gorgeous drive any time of the year, but I did make a mental note that any part of the Blue Ridge Mountains of Virginia are a must-see future stop during peak fall colors!  

The skies were clear and beautiful on Labor Day weekend as we looked out over this southwest corner of Virginia into the vastness of five states.

Our final stop of the weekend rounded out our brief Wytheville visit with a piece of kitsch Americana – Big Walker Lookout.  This quirky place is the oldest privately owned scenic attraction in the state and includes a small country tourist-stop store that sells, among other things, delicious ice cream (I recommend the Lemon Crunch!).  Most weekends, they bring in a local artist or author to sell their wares and a band to play music for visitors.  It was a little tricky to maneuver safely in a Covid world, as masks and social distancing were certainly not the norm in this area and our Sunday afternoon visit was perhaps their busiest time.  The local Gospel band was a joy to hear on this sunny and mild September day and created a great atmosphere.  There were locals that stopped by for the afternoon and a group of motorcycle club riders enjoying themselves equally.

The views from the top of the mountain were pretty, but what our eyes were immediately drawn to was the 100 foot observation tower looming above the scene.  Constructed entirely of metal scaffolding-type material and wooden stair planks on a brick and cement base, it looked every bit of its age.  Attached to the base of the tower was a swinging, suspended wire/rope bridge that rose out above the parking area next to the country store.  It was all built as part of a creative, family-owned small business that was launched at the top of Big Walker Mountain in 1947 to capitalize on the beauty of the land.  It worked, because here we were, all these years later, prepared to pay $8 each to be able to see the views above the tree-line, another 100 feet higher.

Built in the 1940s, we noticed the open stairs, open railings and handmade aesthetic immediately, and contemplated for about 15 minutes if we should ascend to the top or be satisfied with the views at 3405 feet.

As we took to the stairs, it was apparent that this was going to be as tricky as we had expected – neither of us are fans of heights, and it took us at least 15 minutes of discussion to even decide to scale the tower!  Our usual Covid safety measures such as minimizing the use of high-touch areas ended immediately, as we both took a two-handed death grip on every inch of railing to the top.  The age of the tower was apparent, as was our awareness that at the time it was built, the safety standards we benefit from today were certainly NOT applied during construction, which really added to our wariness.  There was “chicken-wire” style coverage below the railings and broken stair treads  – both with gaps large enough that I was happy in that moment that I no longer had fearless young children that wanted to scale the tower.

There were a number of little children that blasted past us, up and down the tower – as our tentative climb continued.  I giggled a little at the contrasting views observers must have seen from below, but we certainly still felt that our fear was reasonable and expected.  We slowly and steadily took each step, breathing deeply through our masks, casting our eyes in front of us rather than down, up or across the horizon.  Our breathing became heightened, our heart-rates increased, and we eventually conquered our fears and made it to the top!  The views were beautiful, and we quickly snapped photos to document our achievement.  We could feel the tower swaying in the breeze, so we maintained a steady grip on the railing and decided quickly it was time to go downstairs.

Even the views from the ground, on the observation platform were rewarding.
Look Ma! No hands! We made it to the top!

The trip back down the tower was unexpectedly easier than the trip up had been.  As we descended, the band was singing and playing the beautiful strains of Amazing Grace (“Was Grace that taught my heart to fear; And Grace, my fears relieved”) – perhaps grace had gotten us up and down that tower!  We were victorious and proud of ourselves, feeling as if we had just done something that was a little risky, certainly a little scary for us, and gave us a thrilling achievement for a Sunday afternoon.  

It was at the landing as we left the tower to reward ourselves with an ice cream cone that we were faced with a new reality.  Walking past us, toward the tower, was a group of several conservative religious, perhaps Mennonites, ready to make the same climb.  Among them, a woman, wearing the traditional dark, plain dress, white hair covering over her little bun and even a mask for safety.  This dear woman looked to be about 85 years old – with a slow gait and a hunched back from years of living – and she took to the stairs without hesitation.  With our egos feeling slightly jarred, we smiled, took a deep breath, shook the jitters out of our knees, and were grateful to be back on solid ground.  We will try to remember this adventurous old woman as we contemplate any future tourist stops that seem a little frightening to us – we tackled this tower – and we are now ready to let our adventures begin – through God’s grace and blessings!

The suspension bridge went from the base of the tower, out over the parking lot in front of the BW Country Store.
“Quick, honey – snap that photo and let’s get down from this tower!”
Safe travels, and enjoy your own "risky" adventures!

The Moment We Became Full-time RVers Was A Little Surprising

Becoming a “full-time RVer” was a piece of cake in the strict definition of the words.  We moved out of our house and into our 35 foot fifth-wheel trailer on July 17, 2020.  We have not returned to sleep in our “sticks and bricks” home since.  So by that definition, we have been “full-timing” for a couple of months now.

But in my gut, full-time living didn’t feel real to me until recently.  We are still adjusting and finding our way there.  That is because living in your camper, trailer, motorhome or RV of any kind is more a state of being or a change in mindset than the place you lay your head each night.  It is a much larger and more significant process of change in your life and in your heart.  “Going FT” took us about six years.

The idea of living full-time in an RV began as we dated and then married in 2015 and were talking about how we might spend our time together.  When you marry in the middle of your life (late 40s) rather than in your youth, you feel compelled to increase the quality of the time you spend together.  You have an appreciation for the brevity of life and gain a desire to make up for the time you lost together.  So we began dreaming about our time together.

Marrying in mid-life grows appreciation for the quality of time you spend together.

We had about six years of at-home parenting to do with the youngest of our kids before we became empty-nesters.  We already were not the traditional family, the typical marriage or the couple we expected to be.  With different backgrounds, we needed to explore the possibilities.  I was always drawn to travel and had been camping my entire life.  My desire to see the country and the world had always been a part of my life, adjusting the distance and types of travel I did along the way for life changes such as college, career, marriage and kids.  I always felt like there was a lot of travel ahead for me.  Andrew had traveled occasionally for work but aside from a few plane trips to Disney when his children were young, vacation was often a “staycation” and work had been his focus.  Before we married, he hadn’t seen himself much outside of the success and growth of his career.

We were both open to great change – heck, our entire lives had been DEFINED by change for years (death, divorce, remarriage).  We wanted to really be able to plan these changes carefully and to take our time.

What began as daydreaming about our future travels, turned into an idea about camping together.  “Let’s try it!”, we said.  My kids and I already had a Coleman pop-up camper, so we took a long-weekend trip to see if camping might be “our thing”.  Then we decided to try some nice resorts as well.  So we took a couple of fly-in, international, “all-inclusive” vacations.  We enjoyed it all.  What we quickly realized was that we wanted to see and do a LOT.  Our daydreaming evolved into a plan – “Let’s take an extended trip once the kids are on their own”.  

We started small to explore camping as a couple…and saw great potential.
All-inclusive resorts are too-short-lived but really wonderful.

Recognizing that we couldn’t afford to travel long-term at high-end resorts, and acknowledging that camping in our 50s would be more pleasant if we focused on the  “glamping” end of the camping spectrum, we hatched a rough plan.  Let’s upgrade our camper and use these next few years to learn to camp together.  We visited an RV show and spent a full two seasons deciding which style of camper would best meet our needs.  We joined Facebook Groups, devoured blogs and Youtube videos of people that were taking epic long-term trips around North America.  We discovered “full-time RVing” and felt like we had found our plan.

That moment of realization created great anticipation and excitement and created even more fun over the following years as we planned for our plan!  We are by nature, big planners and very deliberate decision-makers, but with this big lifestyle change, we made a point to try to NOT plan the travel.  We wanted to breed spontaneity and flexibility into our lives as we became empty-nesters.  

So we used the preparation years to place our focus on getting ready for “our time”.  We wanted to buy the right rig, the right truck, be safe and secure and set ourselves up for great success.  We wanted to be prepared financially and made big decisions, such as selling our home, selling our vehicles and shedding nearly all of our possessions.  We did all of those things and spent the next three summers building up our camping and travel repertoire and paring down our lives for the big launch.

That takes us, once again, to that summer day in July when we moved out of our house and into our camper.  Literally years in the making and all it took was an afternoon to schlep our remaining clothes, food and most important possessions into our 350 foot square home on wheels.

From “sticks and bricks” to Codorus State Park, Hanover, PA – July 2020

We meandered within 25 miles of our starting point for two more weeks, visiting with family, emptying out the house and putting it on the market and REALLY PACKING the rig with everything the last little chick was taking to college.  Down to Florida we went to deposit her at school, help her get settled in her apartment, and to just sit and settle down for a while.  Life had been frenetic and exceedingly busy for months and we were exhausted.  It had been difficult to enjoy the day-to-day because there had been so much to accomplish in those last weeks and months and years.  

Through it all, it took a full month before my dear husband and I looked at each other and referred to our place as “home”.  In the end, it had nothing to do with the rig we chose, or the things with which we had parted.  It did not matter where the camper sat on that particular day.  Instead, it had everything to do with a feeling of contentment.  For us, it was grabbing those feelings we sought – slowing down, reducing responsibilities, changing the type of parenting we did, eliminating “stuff” and reconnecting with each other in a way we hadn’t really felt since we had been teenagers.  At age 54/53, we now have a simpler life with fewer worries which has given us a giddy feeling of anticipation of what lies ahead of us.  We are full-time RVers, exploring life fully – and we are so blessed to experience this lifestyle.

WE ARE … finally full-time RVers